What are complience tests?

[sosumba]

Can anyone please give some example of complience test?

 

[dustmuffin]

Hold my purse....never hold a woman’s purse

 

[Who Dares Win]

Any request that depite being done politely makes you uncomfortable and annoyed.

Hold my purse is a good example, also go get my jacket at the club or "say please" after you tell her not to disturb while you're on the phone.

 

[Billtx49]

Any overt or covert requests for a man’s service, time, and behavior, or a product he wouldn’t normally offer to a woman.

Final level is more covert-
Looking through store window - Those earrings are so beautiful, wish I had some…

 

[lamath]

Mmmm when i think compliance test i think of asking women to do stuff for me.

Can you get me a beer please while i watch the game !
Telling a women to come to your place instead of hers
Telling her to wait for you while you go to the bathroom when at a bar......

Women make me a sandwich!!

 

[sosumba]

So basically its a test to check if the other person submits?

 

[Atom Smasher]

The idea is to tell her to do something for two reasons. One, to see how invested she is, and two, because when a woman does things for you it tends to trigger the thought, “I must really like him since I’m doing this for him”.

 

[RangerMIke]

I really don't believe there is really anything called a 'compliance test', I've always thought of stuff like this as a chick just testing your boundaries. If you don't care if you hold her purse and it really doesn't bother you, then go ahead and hold the fvcking purse. But make a joke about it. Tell her "Okay, I'll hold it but I can't promise I won't rifle though it and keep anything good that I find." Go ahead and hold the purse, but get something for it... tell her to give you a peck on the cheek, or do a little dance... I don't know be creative. Or even better, "Okay, I'll hold it since we are taking turns holding each other's 'things'."

If you don't want to, don't do it. But don't just say NO.

If a chick wants you to buy something for her, then you tell her "So... are we negotiating now? What do I get in return?"

Always get reciprocity... ALWAYS. You want women that are part of the crew, not passengers.

 

[backseatjuan]

Buying tampons for her.

So basically its a test to check if the other person submits?

It's an emasculation technique.
This video @4:00 in explains it perfectly.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Disregard what women say. I just outright ignore the petty stuff. Maybe even give a smirk and go do my thing.

Do what you need to do.

Generate compliance in her actions by her OWN choice.

She should WANT to do what you tell her to, to please you.

Or you'll get someone else.

Competition anxiety is the key.

 

[ubercat]

I d say mix it up between @RangerMIke and @darksprezzatura s excellent advice. If you joke all the time you risk going tit-for-tat escalation sequence. If you just unresponsive you risk the you always ignore me. really ignoring her one day is a good way to introduce some dramas and competition anxiety. You can always claim you were preoccupied with your share market or work or something worthy. I ve got a good woman so I keep the mind games minimum but for you guy who like your chicks more tricksy.

 

[bat soup]

I think people are getting the wrong idea with this question. A compliance test is not the same as a **** test (where a woman tests your boundaries, like a kid tests its parents). A compliance test is when you test a woman's interest level by giving her instructions and seeing if she complies and does what she's told. Generally women that like you will go along with what you want to do (as long as it's reasonable), whereas women that want to waste your time and take advantage will try to get you do to what they want.

For example, you tell the girl where to meet you and if she tries to insist on meeting somewhere else, she fails the compliance test (which tells you she has low interest).

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Mmmm when i think compliance test i think of asking women to do stuff for me

It's basically a structure, to create a slippery slope of behavior, or to test for genuine attraction.

Sales people use them to get the customers trained for obedience.

Ladies use it on men for the same reason.

Dudes can use them on ladies for the same reason, or to check to see how much she's into him.

If she smiles and complies, she is.

If she complies and doesn't smile, or act perturbed, she isn't.

If she tells you to make your own fukking sandwich, it's time to find somebody else.

 

[lamath]

It's basically a structure, to create a slippery slope of behavior, or to test for genuine attraction.

Sales people use them to get the customers trained for obedience.

Ladies use it on men for the same reason.

Dudes can use them on ladies for the same reason, or to check to see how much she's into him.

If she smiles and complies, she is.

If she complies and doesn't smile, or act perturbed, she isn't.

If she tells you to make your own fukking sandwich, it's time to find somebody else.

I agree on slippery slope but i think it depends on how obvious and forceful it is.

My view on this.

Benefits are two fold

- The more obvious of avoiding time wasters and difficult women by exposing thier interest level

- increasing thier interest level by making them invest.

Imo this need to be alot less obvioius and more subtle a bit like Rollo said about frame control. But with investment.

- Make them invest but resist giving the impression that they are.

When they notice how.much they invested, they will end up rationalizing and convincing themself even more that it must be because they really like you.


Very hard to quit or leave something we invested significant time and attention in