Theres this new girl at school and we been checking each oher out for sometime now. She is comfortable with my friends and not with me somehow. After giving me alot of eye contact she started saying hi to me just waving every time i see her. Its been like this for 2 weeks now. I dont see her around much and when i do theres hardley any chance of me going up to start a convo, because the situation just seem not right. When we say our quick Hi's its usually from far away as well. How should i apporach her? and what c&f lines would you suggest i use on her for not knowing my name and vise versa, but we still say hi. Have i stuffed up so bad that its to late to go back? Also her friends seem to check me out more. I guess that would help. Any suggestions would be very helpfull please dont flame.
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What ami doing wrong? please help
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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F*cken n00b go read the bible!!
Just kidding!
Firstly, dont over-analyse everything she does to you. Just talk to her a bit more, then go for the number. If it doesn't work out, her friends seem to be "checking you out" so go for them.
Just kidding!
Firstly, dont over-analyse everything she does to you. Just talk to her a bit more, then go for the number. If it doesn't work out, her friends seem to be "checking you out" so go for them.
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You can start giving more attention to her friends and less to her. See how she reacts. Show what a fun/funny guy you are to her friends but not to her. Don't ignore though, just make convos short and always be the first to go. When she starts to CRAVE attention from you, ask for number/email blahblah and GO OUT AND HAVE FUN!
If all else fails... NEXT!
If all else fails... NEXT!
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
drixsa
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aight lets keep this simple
go up to her
not from a distance, even if this mean u going up from behind her to say hi
initiate conversation
see if u are actually interested in her and she doenst jus look good
because some girls are good from far, but far from good
go up to her
not from a distance, even if this mean u going up from behind her to say hi
initiate conversation
see if u are actually interested in her and she doenst jus look good
because some girls are good from far, but far from good
oakraiderz2
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Just go up to her and say hi, how are you? and carry it from there. Simple my small mind3d friend
Thanks so far. Has anyone been in this situation also. Still havent answerd some questions.
Why is she comfortable with my friends and not me? Im pretty suer she is intrested in me.
How long will she wait for me to approach her. Cause so far all she does is wave hi.
So its easy to talk to people your not intrested in and the ones you are hard. Im not scared of approaching just never found any good situations to do it.
Why is she comfortable with my friends and not me? Im pretty suer she is intrested in me.
How long will she wait for me to approach her. Cause so far all she does is wave hi.
So its easy to talk to people your not intrested in and the ones you are hard. Im not scared of approaching just never found any good situations to do it.
drixsa
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ok..if she doesnt even know your name how comphy do u want her to be?
she would wait as long as it would take for u to get your ass and balls in check and go talk to her
there really isnt ever a bad situation...unless shes sobbing or somethin
(personally i never respond well to other)
there are tough situations(like when she is surrounded by other chicks) but the outcome can be so much better
but with woman its really only as hard as u make it
why would u say that it is harder to talk to a more beautiful woman than say that ugly girl in your english class?
it really goes back to the first thing u learned or were supposed to learn...and that is takin girls off pedistals.
she is really only as attractive as u let her be
i talk to girls like they are guys, i dont think twice about it
=i am not sayin that you should talk to her about that fine ass walkin down the hallway, but i am hoping you are catching my drift
if u really think about it woman arent all that beautiful
with out makeup 0ver 90% of the girls we consider hot, would not get 2nd looks from us
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
tracy Jaks
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everyones been in this situation, and those who ddnt intitite the convo,arranged to hook up and stuff, ended up absolutey ****ing gutted.
just take the advice thats been given to you on this site,and read some of the bible, i kno its tuff but it wil help,
good luck, let us know how it goes.
just take the advice thats been given to you on this site,and read some of the bible, i kno its tuff but it wil help,
good luck, let us know how it goes.