"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well currently, my girlfriend and I have been growing distant from each other, and have been having a hard time communicating our needs and wants. I went into this relationship with ought an actual direction, and we had different motives when going in. I have been with my girlfriend for around 6 months now, and I think that we rushed things in the relationship, and didn't really get to know each other. I feel as if we haven't really connected on a spiritual level, haven't had a deep conversation with one another.

Prom is in a few days, and I don't want to screw anything up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eugene123 said:
communicating our needs and wants.
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Women want a man, not another woman.

I feel as if we haven't really connected on a spiritual level,
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Fvck this girly talk.

haven't had a deep conversation with one another.
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So...?

Prom is in a few days, and I don't want to screw anything up.
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Be afraid to fail and you WILL fail.
 
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Eugene123 said:
Well currently, my girlfriend and I have been growing distant from each other, and have been having a hard time communicating our needs and wants. I went into this relationship with ought an actual direction, and we had different motives when going in. I have been with my girlfriend for around 6 months now, and I think that we rushed things in the relationship, and didn't really get to know each other. I feel as if we haven't really connected on a spiritual level, haven't had a deep conversation with one another.

Prom is in a few days, and I don't want to screw anything up.
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Obviously you never shouldve made this girl your gf, but youve been going out with her for 6 months?! How long have you been feeling this way for? Look man, you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself "Am I truly happy with this relationship?" Be completely honest, and if you come up with "Kinda" or "I dont know", then break up with her asap. Simple as that.

As for the prom thing, considering its only a few days away, its not worth dealing with all the stress of having to find a new prom date, so I recommend just taking her to prom, but when you're there, HAVE FUN AND DONT LET HER RUIN THE NIGHT. Dance with other girls and do whatever the fvck you want.
 
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