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What am i supposed to do when a girl puts her head on my shoulder?

garruk

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this has happened to me a number of times where a girl rests her head on my shoulder. generally they are potential plates.


The thing is they do this alot in public places, like parties or like while waiting in a hotel lobby or soemthing.


how do you respond to this? what would you guys do
 

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Garruck stop acting like a complete dork asking these stupid ass questions. When she puts her head on your shoulder, whip it out and show her tha path!
 

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when she puts her head on you, just say "would you marry me ?".
 

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When a woman puts her head on your shoulder, ENJOY IT. She initiated the kino, you should reciprocate. Put your arm around her and give her a bit of a squeeze.
 

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Desdinova said:
When a woman puts her head on your shoulder, ENJOY IT. She initiated the kino, you should reciprocate. Put your arm around her and give her a bit of a squeeze.
Correct. Her head is on your shoulder. Do you really need to think about it, analyze it? No.
 

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Very creepily smell her hair. Then masturbate.
 

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garruk said:
this has happened to me a number of times where a girl rests her head on my shoulder. generally they are potential plates.


The thing is they do this alot in public places, like parties or like while waiting in a hotel lobby or soemthing.


how do you respond to this? what would you guys do
Push her away and laugh at her like this:

http://nelsonhaha.com/
 

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im sorrry if im sounding really afc. im not trying to at all. I just feel like its an awkward situation because the natural thing to do (let them leave their head there) is what many of you are advising against.

would you guys really push her off? maybe that IS the right thing to do. but i also feel like that might send the wrong message.


anways, you guys are probably right and im probably overanalyzing (one of my biggest faults) but i really would appreciate any serious suggestions on what other individuals would do.
 

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garruk said:
im sorrry if im sounding really afc. im not trying to at all. I just feel like its an awkward situation because the natural thing to do (let them leave their head there) is what many of you are advising against.

would you guys really push her off? maybe that IS the right thing to do. but i also feel like that might send the wrong message.


anways, you guys are probably right and im probably overanalyzing (one of my biggest faults) but i really would appreciate any serious suggestions on what other individuals would do.
No. Put your arm around her and give her a hug. Don't just sit there awkwardly. Pushing her off would give the wrong message unless you are funny about it.

Yes you are being very AFC.
 

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I would suggest bursting into tears and thanking Baby Jesus is the correct course of action under these circumstances.
 

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Slide your arm around her waist and then act as if none of that was happening. Continue on with conversation, if there happen to be other people around. Then afterward, never mention it again. She obviously likes you, and nothing need be said about it. That would only embarrass her. Don't talk - act on it.
 

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Look her in the eyes and say "I love you" just kidding. Play it off, say "hey im not a headrest!" Just joke with her. Or if she has high interest hold her hand or whatever.
 

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my take on it.

If you have never kissed her or been intimate with her...

take it as a sign of interest.

just assume that it is a normal response from a woman who is sexually interested in you, and just play it like that was supposed to happen anyways... and seize the moment.

I would let her put her head on my shoulder for a bit and if she doesn't move right away, after a bit, I would move my arm and kind of kino her while rubbing her back gently, she will take the hint that you are interested in her too by doing this.

its a subtle move, but says the right things, and you get to keep moving forward physically.
 

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horaholic said:
Very creepily smell her hair. Then masturbate.
LOL Thank your horaholic, gave me a nice chuckle!!! :cheer:

I would just go with the flow stand tall like a ****in' man and hold her tight like that's right this is where you ought to be !!!!!!!!
 

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garruk said:
this has happened to me a number of times where a girl rests her head on my shoulder. generally they are potential plates.


The thing is they do this alot in public places, like parties or like while waiting in a hotel lobby or soemthing.


how do you respond to this? what would you guys do
LOL I like how when she was putting her head on your shoulder, you was probably thinking, "SH!T, I need to ask the ladies man forum for advise!!!".

Try saying "aw you're like a little girl :)"... but if you happen to be a pedophile, and she is a little girl, pointing out her age may cause offense :p
 
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