"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What am I doing wrong?

toddC

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I've been part of these boards for a little over a week now and I believe that I've improved my game actually a lot within the week. I've been able to score some chicks and what not. But heres my problem. I for some odd reason want a LTR, however I find myself to never be in a position where I can have one. All my friends get with girls and somehow most of them end up in LTR's...however with my its usually a 1 - 2 night thing. What could I be doing wrong?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dannowillbookem

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im with strams. i know alot of girls i just wanna nail, but neither of us are really interested in ltr.

plus fvcking the first or second date isnt exactly how to get an ltr going.
 

toddC

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No I can def tell whether a girl is just there for a 1 night stand or if she is LTR material. Most of the girls, yes are 1 night stands but now actualy that i'm thinkin about it mostly all the girls I get with are 1 night stand lol...thanks guys u just made me realize lol
 
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