"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What am I doing wrong?

CMNILS87

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Im a big muscular good looking guy. I get hot women to go out on dates with me all the time but I feel like if I can't get in the girls pants within the first night it usually never happens so I have learned to be successful with women by escalating quickly.

I am EXTREMELY good with first impressions...getting numbers, approaching women, getting women to go out with me and getting them interested is my STRENGTH. They respond positively to my aggressive attitude and I project my sexual energy onto them very well. Its not uncommon for chicks with boyfriends to be sending me pictures after meeting them in supermarkets for example. Its also not uncommon for me to meet a girl at the gym, or out somewhere and have an hour conversation with her, and then after the first actual date she loses interest in me.

What am I doing wrong here? Its almost as if my frame of mind switches once I get past that initial close and I become somebody else
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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