"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What am I doing wrong?

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captain55 said:
Im a big muscular good looking guy. I get hot women to go out on dates with me all the time but I feel like if I can't get in the girls pants within the first night it usually never happens so I have learned to be successful with women by escalating quickly.

I am EXTREMELY good with first impressions...getting numbers, approaching women, getting women to go out with me and getting them interested is my STRENGTH. They respond positively to my aggressive attitude and I project my sexual energy onto them very well. Its not uncommon for chicks with boyfriends to be sending me pictures after meeting them in supermarkets for example. Its also not uncommon for me to meet a girl at the gym, or out somewhere and have an hour conversation with her, and then after the first actual date she loses interest in me.

What am I doing wrong here? Its almost as if my frame of mind switches once I get past that initial close and I become somebody else
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Let’s see a photo of you dressed up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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