“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm a 22 year old guy just graduated college last year and I'm making $100k. I've been told I'm good looking facially, I have a group of friends but can't get girls or get laid. I'm pretty skinny as I've never worked out before.
 

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Workout and date more girls
Yeah I've never worked out before bc I've always been more focused on school and doing well in other areas first man. I'm very skinny though for sure. My friends are doing way better with girls than me and it's so frustrating.
 

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How tall are you?

Tall guys can get away with being skinny. Average height or shorter guys, not so much.

Defintely work out. (Even if you are tall, it will still help you.)

Hairstyle is critical too. Maybe try something different.
 

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How tall are you?

Tall guys can get away with being skinny. Average height or shorter guys, not so much.

Defintely work out. (Even if you are tall, it will still help you.)

Hairstyle is critical too. Maybe try something different.
I'm 5'10" man. I've been wondering if working out will really help me that much bc I've seen so many guys that use stuff and it's kinda confused me about lifting and looking good.
 

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5'10" is decent height. But definitely work out. Don't need to use any stuff. You don't even necessarily need to get "big," just look athletic.
How long do you think it would take to get to an attractive body that girls would be impressed. I'm also extremely horny and that's only making me more annoyed bc I just want to smash everything I see.
 

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You're well on your way. It takes practice. Nice job on the salary. I was working in a liquor store at 22, then making $10 an hour as an intern.

By the time a man can read a woman like a book, he needs bifocals.
 

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You're well on your way. It takes practice. Nice job on the salary. I was working in a liquor store at 22, then making $10 an hour as an intern.

By the time a man can read a woman like a book, he needs bifocals.
Thanks man. To be honest I've always been very focused on school and making money my whole life, I graduated with a 3.8 gpa and had a job out of college that I'm pretty happy with but it hasn't been helping me with girls so I've been pretty mad lately at that.
 

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Thanks man. To be honest I've always been very focused on school and making money my whole life, I graduated with a 3.8 gpa and had a job out of college that I'm pretty happy with but it hasn't been helping me with girls so I've been pretty mad lately at that.
If you stay healthy, it will get easier for at least the next 25 years. I'm 47. Even when you have a good job (I did at 23), the age you're at is the hardest age for men. Women your age are in their prime and peak SMV and you're not close. I do wish I had dieted and learned to dress right then. Focus on women who are 17-18.
 

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If you stay healthy, it will get easier for at least the next 25 years. I'm 47. Even when you have a good job (I did at 23), the age you're at is the hardest age for men. Women your age are in their prime and peak SMV and you're not close. I do wish I had dieted and learned to dress right then. Focus on women who are 17-18.
Could you explain a little more what exactly you mean by it'll be "easier" and that I'm not close to my prime. So you think I should focus on diet and lifting right now?
 

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Could you explain a little more what exactly you mean by it'll be "easier" and that I'm not close to my prime. So you think I should focus on diet and lifting right now?
For men, picking up women gets easier every year until we are about 50, and then it declines at the same rate. So at 60 you are like you are at 40, etc. Meaning at 22 you're like a 78 year old right now (minus the cash). But if you're making $100K already you should be fine soon.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Right out of college is that hardest time for any man. The chicks you were banging and dating in college have graduated as well... and they are chasing dudes in their 30s that are better established.

Use this time to work on yourself and career... don't worry so much about chicks... your best time is ahead of you. When I got out of college I focused like a laser on my military career... lots of good things came from that effort... you can do the same.

I'm not saying don;t date... ask chicks out, just don't worry about it. You can also bang 30 something women... they can be fun and they will appreciate you. Some might be in a position to help your career.

When you hit your late 20s... all the chicks coming out of college will be all over you. Like I said your best days are ahead!!!
 

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For men, picking up women gets easier every year until we are about 50, and then it declines at the same rate. So at 60 you are like you are at 40, etc. Meaning at 22 you're like a 78 year old right now (minus the cash). But if you're making $100K already you should be fine soon.
Yeah it definitely sucks right now brother, when I see friends and other guys getting girls when I have 10x what they have and then I'll just sit there and think what am I doing wrong and how can I change it lol.
 

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For men, picking up women gets easier every year until we are about 50, and then it declines at the same rate. So at 60 you are like you are at 40, etc. Meaning at 22 you're like a 78 year old right now (minus the cash). But if you're making $100K already you should be fine soon.
So from what you're saying bro when do you think I'll start having more success? Mid twenties with girls out of college?? I might actually start going for 30+ women right now for a little bit
 

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So from what you're saying bro when do you think I'll start having more success? Mid twenties with girls out of college?? I might actually start going for 30+ women right now for a little bit
Age 26 or so was when I felt reborn.

Yes, you can date older women in your 20's. They are still hot and in their sexual prime around age 30, and they suddenly feel old so they want younger guys.

At age 47, it's easier for me to date a 22 year old than a 32 year old.
 

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I'm a 22 year old guy just graduated college last year and I'm making $100k. I've been told I'm good looking facially, I have a group of friends but can't get girls or get laid. I'm pretty skinny as I've never worked out before.
22 years old making 100k ? good job young man ! seems that you are doing just fine without a woman,continue to focus on yourself,start a vigorous workout routine and the women I guarantee you will come out of the woodwork.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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