"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What am I doing wrong?

captain55

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I've been having great dates lately, successful make outs, initial high interest level, more often than not the girl is more interested in me than I am in them….sometimes its even them suggesting a third date after the second date a day or two after the second date. The problem i seem to be having is not my game in person, but maintaing interest level between dates after an initial flake. I get girls sending me snap chats the day after a great date, texting me all day after they made out with me…..then five days later, its like they have completely forgotten about it.

IDK who started this bull**** about only texting girls when you want to make plans.... I do that **** and it only works on 6's and 7's. If your brad pitt i impinge it might work on a 9, you could call the girl fat and she'll still meet up with you. But ALOT of women are going to take that as a sign of low interest level, or a player. And not all women want a player…..women DONT always chose the guy who has the most options they chose the man who they feel will be the best boyfriend, even if that means not being as alpha as some other guys.

Women have a ton of attractive guys after them so it makes obvious sense they are going to chose the guy who stimulates her emotionally in text messages, problem is Im not that guy. Things come very naturally to me in person Im a great speaker, but I probably have the worst texting game of any guy around. And most girls don't talk on the phone either I notice unless its when your in front of the restaurant or club or some **** waiting for them.

My timing is always off with texting, my texts are lame, and I feel like Im either making myself too available or not available enough. help me out
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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80-20 rule.

It's fine to respond to them, it's fine to initiate 20% of the time.

It's about finding a balance which is what most guys struggle with
 

Infern0

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80-20 rule.

It's fine to respond to them, it's fine to initiate 20% of the time.

It's about finding a balance which is what most guys struggle with
 

Infern0

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80-20 rule.

It's fine to respond to them, it's fine to initiate 20% of the time.

It's about finding a balance which is what most guys struggle with
 

icantgetlaid

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the girls you are dealing with are low interest brah ... take your L and keep it moving.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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