"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what am i doing wrong, guys??

cave dweller

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a plan

Hey,

She went out with you on the 'rebound'. (she still loves her ex)

You might try this:

Seek out and date other women.

Give her a call (just to touch base).

Ask her out, if she says no don't worry about it.

The point is---How are you going to get some of that pvssy if you don't talk to her?

So, give her a call. What do you have to loose?

cave dweller
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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theres lots of ice cream at baskin robbins.. go try a new flavor!
 

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Hey there Bignick 79

I have to agree with the guys on this one. as they have said u have 2 options :

1. Phone her and try to bed her. What the worse she can say "NO"
2. Say "F**k it" and go out and meet someone who is interested in u. As penkitten said :-

theres lots of ice cream at baskin robbins.. go try a new flavor!
Now you comment
Her actions told me she was attracted to me, touching me, holding onto me Etc. She said she was confused which is pretty obvious.
You just told us in there she is confused. Let her go. She was flaking out on you and the doc says that if i girl likes you she will not flake out on you. Doc says there is a type of girls that does all the touching, holding etc but ain't interested in you. If you doubt what we say ask the doc yourself and send him a e-mail.

That just my opinion.

Cheers
 

DonRob

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Originally posted by Gremlin
Hey there Bignick 79

I have to agree with the guys on this one. as they have said u have 2 options :

1. Phone her and try to bed her. What the worse she can say "NO"
2. Say "F**k it" and go out and meet someone who is interested in u. As penkitten said :-


Now you comment


You just told us in there she is confused. Let her go. She was flaking out on you and the doc says that if i girl likes you she will not flake out on you. Doc says there is a type of girls that does all the touching, holding etc but ain't interested in you. If you doubt what we say ask the doc yourself and send him a e-mail.

That just my opinion.

Cheers
A chick that DIGS you doesnt flake on you. When a chick blows off a date its one and done....

The only except woudl be if she calls you to reschedule the date. But SHE has to be the one that suggests a different time.

Remember what Doc says..... if she says shes confused the only one really confused is you.... She is seeing her ex her IL isnt below 40 in him.... probably somewhere about 50 Doghouse big time but not the your OUT house....

You got oneitis with this chick... Move on.... she has the power here and you never want to be in that situation with a chick.
 

NewMan

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Again - Don't call her, let her call you.

You've made your play - she wasn't interested - stop wasting your time with her and move on to better things.

It's important though to - STOP WASTING YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ON HER.

Your rebound.

Your keeping her attention.

Your an emotional tampon.

She's doing just enough to keep you hanging on.

Cut the string.

If you do this chances are you'll bag her in the future.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gipper chokes up on his baseball bat. He swings, he hits. Thud. He swings again.

THUD!!!

Yep, the horse is still dead...

Gipper looks around for a Moderator...

G.
 

uniassign

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I don't think telling her how you feel will make her drop the other guy and start going out with you. That only happens in Hollywood movies.

However, if you keep your cards close to your chest and just let her contact you, you might be able to get her later on.

The ironic thing is that when she does come around and want to be with you, you probably found something better.
 
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