"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what am i doing wrong, guys??

cave dweller

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a plan

Hey,

She went out with you on the 'rebound'. (she still loves her ex)

You might try this:

Seek out and date other women.

Give her a call (just to touch base).

Ask her out, if she says no don't worry about it.

The point is---How are you going to get some of that pvssy if you don't talk to her?

So, give her a call. What do you have to loose?

cave dweller
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten

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theres lots of ice cream at baskin robbins.. go try a new flavor!
 

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Hey there Bignick 79

I have to agree with the guys on this one. as they have said u have 2 options :

1. Phone her and try to bed her. What the worse she can say "NO"
2. Say "F**k it" and go out and meet someone who is interested in u. As penkitten said :-

theres lots of ice cream at baskin robbins.. go try a new flavor!
Now you comment
Her actions told me she was attracted to me, touching me, holding onto me Etc. She said she was confused which is pretty obvious.
You just told us in there she is confused. Let her go. She was flaking out on you and the doc says that if i girl likes you she will not flake out on you. Doc says there is a type of girls that does all the touching, holding etc but ain't interested in you. If you doubt what we say ask the doc yourself and send him a e-mail.

That just my opinion.

Cheers
 

DonRob

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Originally posted by Gremlin
Hey there Bignick 79

I have to agree with the guys on this one. as they have said u have 2 options :

1. Phone her and try to bed her. What the worse she can say "NO"
2. Say "F**k it" and go out and meet someone who is interested in u. As penkitten said :-


Now you comment


You just told us in there she is confused. Let her go. She was flaking out on you and the doc says that if i girl likes you she will not flake out on you. Doc says there is a type of girls that does all the touching, holding etc but ain't interested in you. If you doubt what we say ask the doc yourself and send him a e-mail.

That just my opinion.

Cheers
A chick that DIGS you doesnt flake on you. When a chick blows off a date its one and done....

The only except woudl be if she calls you to reschedule the date. But SHE has to be the one that suggests a different time.

Remember what Doc says..... if she says shes confused the only one really confused is you.... She is seeing her ex her IL isnt below 40 in him.... probably somewhere about 50 Doghouse big time but not the your OUT house....

You got oneitis with this chick... Move on.... she has the power here and you never want to be in that situation with a chick.
 

NewMan

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Again - Don't call her, let her call you.

You've made your play - she wasn't interested - stop wasting your time with her and move on to better things.

It's important though to - STOP WASTING YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ON HER.

Your rebound.

Your keeping her attention.

Your an emotional tampon.

She's doing just enough to keep you hanging on.

Cut the string.

If you do this chances are you'll bag her in the future.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gipper chokes up on his baseball bat. He swings, he hits. Thud. He swings again.

THUD!!!

Yep, the horse is still dead...

Gipper looks around for a Moderator...

G.
 

uniassign

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I don't think telling her how you feel will make her drop the other guy and start going out with you. That only happens in Hollywood movies.

However, if you keep your cards close to your chest and just let her contact you, you might be able to get her later on.

The ironic thing is that when she does come around and want to be with you, you probably found something better.
 
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