"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What am i dealing with here?

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Shizz

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Hey guys, I'm pretty new to this and have run into a weird girl.

I done a bit of testing with the rules, i like to see things happen to believe, basically i tested the bad boy vs nice guy. So i done bad boy first and had this one girl HB7 all over me for about 2-3 months, while doing it i met another girl (this ones friend) a HB8 who i decided to be the nice guy with. I've pretty much broken every rule, texting game, truth, coming off needy, yet she still seems interested.

The hell is going on? is she playing some sick game or have i just run into a weird one? I don't even know if i should carry on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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youngmack

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Some girls like nice guys but most girls like bad boys. Most people believe that nice guys get no play at all but they do. Just not as much as the bad boys.

As for this girl I'm not sure if she's really interested or just playing games. How bout you just ask her on a date and escalate from there to see if its genuine.
 
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I've been out with her twice, let her arrange and what not and it went decent. Yesterday was supposed to be the 1st "date" which she flaked on but counter offered which i declined since it involved money and I'm broke. I would think she's trying to take advantage of the "nice guys" money but when out she buys me drinks.

Really I'm just confused, goes against everything i know and understand, given its not much but its enough.
 
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Why try to analyze why being nice guy and bad guy at the same time to two different women is working? It's like you're coming on here to ask why you're doing well with two women because you feel like you shouldn't be. Not all women are the same. And try to get your money up in the meantime.
 
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