"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

what am i called-description

joe45

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2005
Messages
397
Reaction score
4
Age
44
Location
vanciouver
i talk with the girls and be freinds-talk about school, life and her interests and well what she does on the weekend and after a while after being more comfortably aquianted i ask for her number or i give her mine-she givesme her # it to me, i say maybe we can go out sometime to a movie or whatever catch for some lunch and smile.what happens if i never plan on dating or doing what i said i will or maybe just changed my mind or found a better girl, so i never phone these girls and catch up on the date or ask her out. am i called a tease , player or flirt or what am i called

or if u flirt and be friendly with girls and get their numbers and never phone em back is that player,tease, or what.

or what happens if i be freindly and make a lot of small talk and chit chat with a lot of girls what am i called and maybe or may not be dating a gal
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Junior Sanz

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2005
Messages
83
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
NJ
its called.....NOT FOLLOWING THROUGH!

follow through with your actions bro!

when lance armstrong is in a race, you dont see him go mid-way and say, "eh, im good here.." and stop do you???

FOLLOW THROUGH BRO!
 

HeartlessBtch

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 11, 2005
Messages
141
Reaction score
0
Location
Northern VA, US
From a girl's point of view...ok how do I put this...Girls do it all the time, we say we'll call and never do. if you get a girl's number and never give her a call, then like junior said, you are not following up, but it's ok, unless the girl is sweating you she'll live. BUT if you are actually exchanging numbers, showing interest and let's say you do not call, but she DOES give you a call and leave you a message and you do not reply, then I guess you are a tease. But why would a man do such a thing? Is it just challenging for you to get a girls number and when you do, you feel pleased as if you have achieved your goal? Someone once told me that getting a girl's number is just having one foot through the door...it doesn't really mean much
 

Junior Sanz

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2005
Messages
83
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
NJ
getting a girl IMO is when she is on top straddling you, and has your arms over your head.....

NOW YA GOT ONE! :woo:
 

themanwithnoname

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2005
Messages
245
Reaction score
0
Location
California
that's fine, it just means you aren't that interested in her, girls know that stuff, and you know what who gives a crap cause even though a man is supposed to initiate everything if she's not all that crazy about you then she probably wouldn't make suggestions or hint at going somewhere with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top