"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What am I actually looking for?

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I am going out into the world with red pill mindsets for the first time. As recently as two weeks ago, my goal in life was to start flipping houses and make tons of money and then this will allow me to find a beautiful wife, etc. I'm now realizing it's not that simple and why would I want to get used anyway?

I also realize that it has to be more than just about sex. I've had sex before. Many times. Having sex again is not going to change my life in any way. When that girl from SA came over, she gave really good head. It was awesome head.

Did it change my life? No. Not even in the slightest. I had forgotten about it just a few minutes after she was done.

My point is, that if it was just about SEX and nothing else, then anything with a hole would do...

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You might as well have sex with that girl if you're looking for SEX and sex alone. It's just a hole, right?

So there must be some mutual respect and understanding? Some sort of real human connection? Does this even exist in today's world? Aren't all the girls corrupted? Aren't they all sl uts? Haven't they all had so much d !ck that they can't pair bond?

I don't even know what type of investment I am looking at from a girl. Like I said, if it was just about sex, then a prostitute would do just fine. There must be more to it than that.

I think anything short of "babies momma," would just be some half-assed investment. Like when the girl at the strip club wanted me to be her mentor in house flipping. **** that. I have no time for charity.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Serenity

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You'd like someone to care about you right? Find a woman who does that and that you're capable of doing it back.

It's an emotional thing, you may not be mature enough to have it yet or even understand what I'm talking about. They're not all sluts, but if you regard them all as such they will all be a bitch towards you. Does it matter how much dick she has had? Not really, except have her tested before fucking her if it's a lot. It's probably been a lot of dicks because she met many guys like you who didn't have a clue what love is.

Love is what they want, but so many men doesn't know what love is or completely misunderstand it (such as thinking it's giving her money etc.). You'd want love in return. It certainly is possible, but you gotta filter women a lot better.
 

BetterCallSaul

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The other 3 page thread some guys said you need therapy. I tend to agree even with just this post. Your outlook on life in general is pretty bad. Plenty of other guys here on this very forum, in my opinion, are also in need of therapy of some type. Now, what type of therapy? I dont know, maybe an actual psychiatrist, maybe strippers, maybe yellow therapy from Thailand. I dont know, but I do know your outlook on life sucks. You can either put in real effort to try and get it fixed so that you can find some kind of positive energy from your life that is not reliant upon someone else providing it, or you can go through life in a pissed off mood all the time. Yeah that'll REALLY get the women rolling in.
 

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He does have a point..... it's not all about pvssy.

As you mature the more that becomes apparent.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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