"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What am I actually looking for?

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I am going out into the world with red pill mindsets for the first time. As recently as two weeks ago, my goal in life was to start flipping houses and make tons of money and then this will allow me to find a beautiful wife, etc. I'm now realizing it's not that simple and why would I want to get used anyway?

I also realize that it has to be more than just about sex. I've had sex before. Many times. Having sex again is not going to change my life in any way. When that girl from SA came over, she gave really good head. It was awesome head.

Did it change my life? No. Not even in the slightest. I had forgotten about it just a few minutes after she was done.

My point is, that if it was just about SEX and nothing else, then anything with a hole would do...

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You might as well have sex with that girl if you're looking for SEX and sex alone. It's just a hole, right?

So there must be some mutual respect and understanding? Some sort of real human connection? Does this even exist in today's world? Aren't all the girls corrupted? Aren't they all sl uts? Haven't they all had so much d !ck that they can't pair bond?

I don't even know what type of investment I am looking at from a girl. Like I said, if it was just about sex, then a prostitute would do just fine. There must be more to it than that.

I think anything short of "babies momma," would just be some half-assed investment. Like when the girl at the strip club wanted me to be her mentor in house flipping. **** that. I have no time for charity.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You'd like someone to care about you right? Find a woman who does that and that you're capable of doing it back.

It's an emotional thing, you may not be mature enough to have it yet or even understand what I'm talking about. They're not all sluts, but if you regard them all as such they will all be a bitch towards you. Does it matter how much dick she has had? Not really, except have her tested before fucking her if it's a lot. It's probably been a lot of dicks because she met many guys like you who didn't have a clue what love is.

Love is what they want, but so many men doesn't know what love is or completely misunderstand it (such as thinking it's giving her money etc.). You'd want love in return. It certainly is possible, but you gotta filter women a lot better.
 

BetterCallSaul

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The other 3 page thread some guys said you need therapy. I tend to agree even with just this post. Your outlook on life in general is pretty bad. Plenty of other guys here on this very forum, in my opinion, are also in need of therapy of some type. Now, what type of therapy? I dont know, maybe an actual psychiatrist, maybe strippers, maybe yellow therapy from Thailand. I dont know, but I do know your outlook on life sucks. You can either put in real effort to try and get it fixed so that you can find some kind of positive energy from your life that is not reliant upon someone else providing it, or you can go through life in a pissed off mood all the time. Yeah that'll REALLY get the women rolling in.
 

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He does have a point..... it's not all about pvssy.

As you mature the more that becomes apparent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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