What Age of Girls/Women Do You Attract?

[tone_loc]

What's up all, I'm posting here, as I'm in my late twenties, so I'd like to get information from those in my age group.

I'm having a dating dilemma. I tend to be attracted, physically that is, to younger women (18-25). But emotionally and intellectually, I tend to be attracted to women closer to me in age, 25 and over.

I really prefer not to "play the field" or "spin plates" but instead have a steady girlfriend, like I have in the past.

I feel like when I date younger women, I am more sexually fulfilled, but when I date women my age, I feel more emotionally fulfilled. There doesn't seem to be a happy medium.

How do you think I should work my way through this situation? What do you all do?

Also, I'm not really into the club hopping scene, for a variety of reasons.

Peace,

Tone

 

[guru1000]

You should attract 18-25 with no problem into your late 30's.

 

[trajhenkhet02]

I usually attract younger. Recently I've been attracting ladies around my age. Not saying it's on purpose but rather how things have just balanced out.

 

[Jitterbug]

I'm 25 turning 26, mostly attract 18~25, with a few late 30s and a few creepy 40~50 thrown in for good measure. I've never dated 25~35 though. They tend to go for 30-something guys.

I don't think I've ever been "intellectually attracted" to a woman. What the hell does that mean?

 

[Casually]

I'm 25 now, and I think I've hit the sweet spot where I'm attracting women that are both younger and older than me.

Younger women can sometimes be a little immature, but I've also met plenty of young girls that have surprised me with their level of maturity. Definitely a lot more mature than I was at their age. At the same time, I've also met plenty of 25 year olds that are not only interesting people, but very physically attractive as well. So these women are out there.

If you're looking for emotional maturity, you're probably wise avoiding the club scene. Try joining a club, or taking cooking classes, or dance classes, or some activity that interests you. If you're good with cold approaches, try bookstores and coffee shops and the like.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

You should attract 18-25 with no problem into your late 30's.

You got that right!