loveorhate
Don Juan
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I say 20. my girlfriend is 20 and she wants it all the time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I heard that THAT was a myth.Pathgen said:The year of their life when they meet me. haha jk.
But seriously i heard that when they get older 30+ they start getting hornier due to their bodies realizing that they are becoming infertile soon.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i would agree and disagree with that it all depends on the individual female so it could be any age but from talking and working with two older ladies the detail in which they used to discuss their sex lives even had me wondering and the fact they had children was even more funnyPathgen said:The year of their life when they meet me. haha jk.
But seriously i heard that when they get older 30+ they start getting hornier due to their bodies realizing that they are becoming infertile soon.
That doesn't make it true.nmartinez12443 said:in psych class.
nice. now I have something to look forward to.SharinganUser said:A womans sexual peak is arround 32-34.
good. now I can ask my friend's grandma for a b0wj0b.SharinganUser said:Any and everyage.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
loveorhate said:nice. now I have something to look forward to.
good. now I can ask my friend's grandma for a b0wj0b.
SharinganUser said:I said this one....
But I didn't say this next one. Get your quotes right man. :yes: