"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What age did you notice your sex drive had dipped?

Jaylan

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Im only 26, soon to be 27, so my drive is still pretty high. However, as I get closer to 30 I do think about aging. Im an athletic guy, so I think about when my strength will dip some, when my speed will decrease, and when my recovery time from injuries would start to increase.

Those things didnt both me so much as when I thought about my sex drive not staying as high as it is. So much of who we are once we become men, is our sexuality. So I do think about it and wonder.

So what can some of you older gents tell me to expect? And for the truly older chaps (say over 50), is it possible to still get pretty rock hard without pills and have a decent drive where you want sex at least once a week?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jaylan,

I have good news for you. If you stay in shape and lift weights, you'll be going strong into your fifties. And no reason why you can't be rock hard.

I'm 55 and have never needed viagara. On a good day/evening, we're talking 2 or 3 times. One thing that is different is that it takes longer and more work to climax than when you're younger. Another is a little more recovery time between orgasms.

It also helps to have a younger girlfriend...

-Augustus-
 

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You're a man? I always pictured you as an uneducated black woman on welfare.
 

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At 56 I feel absolutely no different from when I was 30 sexually.

That may be hard to believe but it's absolutely true.
 

Jaylan

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^Do you work out a lot? And whats your diet like?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fatal Jay

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Jaylan said:
Im only 26, soon to be 27, so my drive is still pretty high. However, as I get closer to 30 I do think about aging. Im an athletic guy, so I think about when my strength will dip some, when my speed will decrease, and when my recovery time from injuries would start to increase.

Those things didnt both me so much as when I thought about my sex drive not staying as high as it is. So much of who we are once we become men, is our sexuality. So I do think about it and wonder.

So what can some of you older gents tell me to expect? And for the truly older chaps (say over 50), is it possible to still get pretty rock hard without pills and have a decent drive where you want sex at least once a week?

you too young for it to be dipping

you need to do 90 day no fap challenge, ever since I did that, I get boners just by looking at chicks or if a chick barely touches my arm lol
 

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At 26, I weighed 230 lbs and felt... MEH, sexually. Was in an LTR too.

At 32 and weighing 160, I feel even better and man, I just want to bone anything in sight that passes my qualifiers.

You've got a LONG way to go before you even start thinking about that...
 

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If Obama had a son, he'd look like Trayvon, and if he had a daughter, she'd sound like Jaylan.

Just kidding. For a man, life begins at 27. For a woman, 27 is when they start to seem older.
 
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