"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What age did you guys lose your virginity?

retired_dude

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I was 36. A late bloomer I guess. Must have had sex with close to 175people before I turned 40. The more the girls thought I was gay the more they tried to seduce me. When a girl wants you she will do absolutely anything to get you. I mean anything. I had to be constantly on guard.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ketostix

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How the hell could you lose your virginity at 36 and then by 40 been with over 175 different girls? Thahts almost a different one ever week. I'm calling BS on that.
 

thatguyjamalx

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I got broken in at 16, to a curious 18yr old neighbor, It was the worst lay I've had to date. She(HB8) & I were as drunk as sailors at a party and after getting over the initial surprise I was actually having sex, it was kinda boring, I just wanted to blow my load and get out of there and drink more JD with the boys.

In the end, I didn't blow, felt kinda used and she ended up smoking a joint and then throwing up.
 

arqz4

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still a virgin here... 22 y/o...

I could use some experience from you guys... i thought about getting a hooker just to get over the "i'm making a big deal out of it" thing but i never did. I believe that waiting till i meet a girl i have an actual connection with would be the best case scenario...

On the other hand, its actually harder said than done... finding the special girl sometimes strikes me as an illusion, and i should just fu*k some hooker and get over with this bs... that would improve my game and overall confidence..

i was an AFK till 19, so i had only 3 years of actual good experience with women...

what are your thoughts on this?

regards, arqz4
 

persiangino

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16, With this hot, 21 year old blonde bombshelll from the ukraine. My first, yet the hottest girl i've ever shagged. "Met" her at my best friend's birthday party, she basically gamed me and then we ended up at my place. I had no clue what i was doing but not surprisingly she provided me with a condom and i fukced her doggystyle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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azanon

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Tyron said:
I lost my virginity propably at age of 16. What does it matter, it's not a contest.
16 here too.

You're right its not a contest. Its also not a contest as to how many you've had/will have in your lifetime either. The question "which is better", in so many cases, is a trick question and anyone giving a definitive answer in those cases is the person who was tricked.
 

tsmith2334

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ketostix said:
Well are you a virgin? If so, then the oldest virgin here is 45 but I have my doubts. Someone said Luke Sywalker is one so and I think he's 26 but he has verified. Other than that we have 21 as the oldest.

21! do I have 22 lol?
22 is nothing compared to some of the members here. I think at least half the "Don Juans" in this community are virgins.

I lost it at 20, but it's important to emphasize that it's not a race

Lots of times "late bloomers" have better sex lives by the time they are 40+

So if you're 25 and still a virgin, don't worry.... keep working at getting laid but rest assured it will happen sooner than later. That should ease your mind
 
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Lots of times "late bloomers" have better sex lives by the time they are 40+
lol ok...

i lost mine at 15 umm how many girls i have slept with since than..i couldnt tell u lol
 

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23, but could have lost it at 17. Wasn't reeally attracted to her though, so I held back. After 17, I didn't date(didn't really give a sh*t about girls), until I was 20.

Proudly I lost my virginity to a smokin' 34 year old New Jersey chick of whom I met online on a website(a website that I have to say was good for picking-up, unlike all these other joke sites). Stunning woman. What a face and bod.
 
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