Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What advice would you give a woman?

SamePendo

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Ok, many guys now know enough to give out advice to other men. But, how about giving advice to women to getting men?

Yes, women in theory just have to flash their boobies to get 10 guys around her wanting to bone her. But, seriously, what advice would you give to the AFC/NiceGuy equivalent? I seriously wouldn't know if the advice given in Cosmo or any equivalent does give good advice on this subject because I haven't read much of that, we'd have to ask "The_Truth" (not that he knows what good advice is anyways..).

Well, I'd explain to her the importance of self esteem. The importance of excercise and diet. Then, I'd go with the importance of posture, eye contact and smiling. And, surely, a change in garments.

But then again, many men don't get a clue (remember that Archived thread on "most obvious comeon that was missed?") I'd teach her to smile at guys she'd fancy, keep prolonged eye contact with a shy smile, and if they approach, have a wide smile, ask their names, and... well.. guys should get a clue by that time. What would you teach her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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realsmoothie

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JUST TALK TO HIM

Works like a charm. If a girl wants me, all she has to do is walk up and say hi.

Guys aren't complicated, don't have b*tch shields, don't really worry what their friends think.
 

Le Parisien

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The most sincere advice I'd give to a girl so she can attract the guys of her dreams is basically becoming a great/nice/interesting/intelligent person overall so she will be the total package.

Yeah, you read it right, the "total package", just like for us guys. Which unfortunately suppose she has to be attractive to begin with. :whistle:

"You can get the guys of your dreams to sleep with you if you are hot enough, but you need to be a great person if you want to be able to keep them." Sure not in this crude wording, but you get the idea...:D
 

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seriously,

for a woman - the only advice needed is "be hot".

that's it.

everything else is gravy.

playing at a "high level" for women is be hot or go home.

that's it.

that's why for women, the game is either ridiculously easy or impossibly hard.... although i suppose diet and exercise will take you a long way.... so similar to men - where all the chicks would rather share a good man rather than take a loser she can have to herself - with chicks, we'd all fight over a hot one and not give a non hot one a moment's notice.

yep, it's a cruel game we play.

delta
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wayword

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Shut her legs and don't let the flies out...

Oik, seriously, stop going out with badboy cheaters and pick winners with integrity. Women force men to behave certain ways based upon who they select to fvck. Stop slvtting around so much and getting dirty cooters. Stop ego-wrestling with guys and hating men - and learn to appreciate everything man has done for civilization throughout history while women sat in the homes we built for them picking their bellybuttons. Learn to be accountable for your own actions. Think before you feel. Learn to make yourself useful to men and society. Accept the fact that a woman's PRIMARY DESIGN FUNCTION is bearing and raising children. If you fulfill your designated role with pride, you will fulfill yourself. And...not everything is about YOU, YOU, YOU! The more you give, the more you get...

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