"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What about my head?

biblioscholar

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Here is my problem.My head is bald what the hello can i do.I feel so bad what can i do??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ryanvalmont

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Originally posted by biblioscholar
Here is my problem.My head is bald what the hello can i do.I feel so bad what can i do??
Live with it! :D
 

karusel

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Chop it off!!! :D Seriously though, why would you want to do anything at all? Specially if you're already bold. Some people have crooked noses, some have small penises, some are blind, and some are missing an arm. They all can and will get chicks. Some people have plenty of hair but I guess it's what's in your head that's important.
 

PeeGee

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I went to a club really early this morning (post midnight), and while I didn't check out the entire joint, 90% of the guys just don't hit on girls outside of kino. Most of the guys are in pretty good shape, don't look that bad, or downright look good (not like I check out guys). But they don't do ****!

So it sort of implies that a lot of women aren't be hit on. If YOU do it, you wouldn't get much actual competition (and if you do, plenty of other women). Go for it and stop being unconfident!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dirtheart

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Some women LOVE bald guys, but you have to learn not to let it hinder your confidence. The key is to make it appear as though you have chosen to be bald and are proud of it, so shave it completely and be confident!

Also, try to create your image around it and look for cool and confident role models who are also bald. There are loads of bald or receding models and celebrities these days who women adore (Vin Diesel for one). Flaunt it as a sign of your masculinity and make it work for you.
 
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