"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What about karma?

youngmack

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Ok so i know being a dj you will talk and mess wih a lot of women and if you play your cards right you will smash most of them. But what some girls will be attached to you sometimes and you not wanting a LTR will kick her to the curb or dissappear from her. Dont gou think karma will come back and bite you in your butt? ( those of you believe in karma) But it dosent even have to be karma ...christianity says "do unto others what you want done unto you"

Me im 16 and Im speaking from experience.And not to knock down anyones hustle or speak negatively about being a dj( i love this new lifestyle) but i had this girl in love with me and i broke her heart and did her wrong but we never even was in a relationship. Now i feel as if karma came back for me and bite me in the butt HARD. I got played by my ex who i went back to and i now have the BIGGEST ONEITIS for her. Now i cry myself to sleep almost evey night.

Just something to think about.... Any thoughts on this guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Knowledge can be used to do good deeds as well as bad deeds. It's up to whoever has the knowledge to decide how to use it.
 

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In the scene of dating, you getting a girl if you are a good guy is pretty low. You need to play the game.
Of course you are building negative karma, by playing games, that't why you need to good deeds at other places.
Do you think girls don't know about karma, they know. but they still do what they are doing.
 

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Sounds like you're saying that gaming and fvcking girls is bad for your karma...

It's like saying fornication is a sin...

Game isn't bad. If something is true, one has to accept it.
 

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like how it gets harder for women as they get older, like i've said before, thats women's punishment, thats karma for them, thats what they get for rejecting and friend-zoning us guys when they were in their teens and 20's, thats what they get labeling too many guys losers, creepers, weirdo's, stalkers, not "man enough", overall, rejecting us, for going for the bad-boys, jerks, jocks, loud-mouth, talkative, life of the party guys, haha, it just makes me want to laugh and taunt all of those old women out there who used to be the mega hot chick in high school and college and was getting get hit, approached by guys left and right, well, sucks for you now *****, haha.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah this is a problem for me.. Because i have many opportunities to fvck a girl, but i hesitate because of this oneitis i have which is probably karma.

Its true what they say "What goes around comes around"
 

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youngmack said:
Yeaah but what about us lol This is idea messes with my brain lol
well after all the rejecting that women did in their teens and 20's, that will come back to haunt them when they get older, lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Young mack,

Very good post.

Keep a moral angle; gauge the poon and scrutinize. Treat well and reward for good behaviour, punish for bad behaviour - just remember that karma bites you back if you really deliberately set out to hurt someone.
 

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It's easier for a man to attract women with his personality than it is for a woman to attract a man her personality.

Therefore I think women don't place as much value on looks as men do. Some might, but I'd say generally no.

However I do think it makes a huge difference if you're looking really good. It makes attraction instant and you don't have to work for it as you would by displaying character traits.
 

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Chamber36 said:
It's easier for a man to attract women with his personality than it is for a woman to attract a man her personality.

Therefore I think women don't place as much value on looks as men do. Some might, but I'd say generally no.

However I do think it makes a huge difference if you're looking really good. It makes attraction instant and you don't have to work for it as you would by displaying character traits.
yeah, it's like a guy can look like Brad Pitt, David Beckham, Channing Tatum, Cristiano Ronaldo, Tom Brady, Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, or a GQ Model, but if he has no confidence, has low self-esteem, is boring, has no life, is a pushover, doormat, he will get rejected instantly.
 
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