Just like alot of AFCs who don't even try to pick up women, all of my friends are AFCs as well. So basically, I'm on my own when it comes to picking up chicks. My friends are either total nerds, unemployed bums, or devoted christians who love Jesus way too much.
Basically, I can't even stand being around these people anymore and want to hang around people who can help me meet women, and won't be embarassing to be around.
In highschool I barely ever went to parties or really talked much to women. I stayed away from social events, and me and my friends would just sit there in our own group, talking about how "dances are for fags", then we'd go home and play nintendo 64 all day. Add this to the fact that I was an 'avid christian' and stayed away from drinking/lust, and you've got a big AFC with big problems.
I recently gave up both video games and church, but now I'm not really left with any real hobbies. Since I'm in college, taking business courses, and working part time at a grocery store, I'm stuck here living with my parents, and couldn't afford to move out (and won't be able to until 2006 when I get my diploma).
This leaves me in a dilemma... if you don't have a regular social life, you won't have much fun, and you'll be very needy when it comes to dating women. Women want a guy who has a life. How do you suddenly get a life? Should I be looking for guy friends before looking for women? Will dating alot of women draw in some guy friends? What type of hobbies can I get into to help build a social life?
Another problem is that my parents are devoted christians, which means that I can't really "bring a girl home." It sucks.
I need all the help I can get. Thanks in advance.
Basically, I can't even stand being around these people anymore and want to hang around people who can help me meet women, and won't be embarassing to be around.
In highschool I barely ever went to parties or really talked much to women. I stayed away from social events, and me and my friends would just sit there in our own group, talking about how "dances are for fags", then we'd go home and play nintendo 64 all day. Add this to the fact that I was an 'avid christian' and stayed away from drinking/lust, and you've got a big AFC with big problems.
I recently gave up both video games and church, but now I'm not really left with any real hobbies. Since I'm in college, taking business courses, and working part time at a grocery store, I'm stuck here living with my parents, and couldn't afford to move out (and won't be able to until 2006 when I get my diploma).
This leaves me in a dilemma... if you don't have a regular social life, you won't have much fun, and you'll be very needy when it comes to dating women. Women want a guy who has a life. How do you suddenly get a life? Should I be looking for guy friends before looking for women? Will dating alot of women draw in some guy friends? What type of hobbies can I get into to help build a social life?
Another problem is that my parents are devoted christians, which means that I can't really "bring a girl home." It sucks.
I need all the help I can get. Thanks in advance.