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What about girls who dont play ANY games? With one now...she is 'nice' i'd suppose.

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This one girl i know goes out of her way to please me. And i mean in a big way

So far she has paid for my lunch (my suggestion which she was extreemly keen to take up) after not being able to see me on friday night.

We went to the first place i took her to. She forgot her purse. So she drove ALL the way back to her house to pick it up and came back!

Then she was extreemly apologetic. She is not retarted. She is actually very good looking, slim body, big boobs, the lot.

Then we went to another place, because i thought the one we were at was just too hot anyway. So we drove further into the city and went to a cafe.

She has admitted to being nervous.

Anyway, date went well and she could just not stop talking. She was excited, etc.

Anyway, we have already had sex, and this was our second meeting.

Now, i am usually a very good person with dealing with difficult/not 100% intome girls, or girls who need "prodding" to advance things.

This girl is just so nice and she doesnt seem to play any type of games. Tho she is reserved with her body as all nice girls are....tho later in the date she took off her shirt and under she was wearing a revealing top that showed her breasts.

That was back at her house. She gave me a couple of her own books to read after we found out i like reading too.

Anyway, she has done a lot for me, dropped me home, come to my house (i've been to hers) and she has leant me stuff like the books and made me a cup of tea, etc...she even gave me her phone number in the first place, i didnt have to ask for it.

She cant be desparate, she is too good looking. Her flatmate is a total loser who doesnt know how to communicate well and he is moving out this week.

Maybe she wants me to move in, i dunno :)

Thing is, how do i treat this girl. Because i want to mack/and c&f her because thats who i am and enjoy being.

But should it?

What are your opinions on "nice" girls.

She is hot in the sack, but she has made it clear (after our first meeting when we had sex twice and she sucjked me off to boot!) that she is indeed not a slut.

Whats the go with nice girls? Do i need to do anything special/different?

I have only ever been with 2 nice girls before...once a long time ago that was a teenage relationship which was easy to handle....and another one 1.5 years ago which was also dead easy to handle....no special moves required.

Do you think she just likes ot hang out like the others?

My new found skills seem to be not needed almost. Except those to turn her on which i will use...

So how to handle nice girls???
 

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Whats the go with nice girls? Do i need to do anything special/different? No.

Why change anything? You're getting all the goodies you want. If you're having fun, stick with her. But if she bores you to tears, feel free to move on.
 

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Thanks chancer.

I'd say you are 100% right. The simplest solution is often the best.

I can't actually - and won't change who i am.

The only reason for me my post was that she is already squirming and hoping and beating herself up that she made a few "mistakes". She seems to understand relasitonship dynamics and thats why she was bothered.

Interesting. At least she is making effort.

I am soon going to text her and say i want to come over, so i can throw the books she gave me back at her. They are terrible! :)
 

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i have a similar problem.. interesting...

she never played any games, she just like to hang out and have fun...

it's strange, cuz im always especting b*tchy moves that girls do...

however, on that matter shes more like a dude, don't give a cr*p for bs too
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i was thinking about this yesterday....

isn't them a upgraded version of a AFC male? but female?
 

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Basically. You just have a girl with a combination of slightly lower self-esteem and also no narcissistic defenses. (some low SE girls act b!tchy to hide it. other high SE girls act b!tchy because they can.)

Just enjoy what you've got, but don't lose your game regardless. Maybe she's LTR material. Wait and see.
 

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sounds like you hit the jackpot mate.
 
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