"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What about dramaqueens?

lifeisgood

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What is your take on woman who generally dramatise situations.
You know the type who make problems appear bigger than what they are.
They talk to their mum or best friend and blow things out of proportion rather quickly and regularly. Until now, I have not come across many in my life,- perhaps been lucky that way
or instinctively avoided them.
Anyways I would like to hear what some of your opinions are?
Someone suggested about my own situation from a recent post;'not to fuel their fire'-which is almost impossible sometimes as everything with her currently gets dramatised...
Ignoring her perceived drama actually makes her more furious,
to play along seems to settle her quicker.
Opinions please?
Cheers Gentlemen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No.Danny

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Don't get involved
 

Scaramouche

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Dear life is Good,
You have more Nom de Nets than Reilly Ace of Spies!
 

dasein

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They are usually a bit better in bed, keep them happy sexually and high on oxytocin and they are OK. Once the honeymoon starts to wear off, IME about three months, they will start stirring up crap. Eject to next, and be happy for a good three months.
 

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Also, never argue with a woman especially this type. She will always win.

Why?

Unlike when a man generally argues his case, when a woman like this argues hers, she doesn't use any set of standards to make sure that what she says is actually the truth.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lifeisgood

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Ha, I agree with you logicallefty!
Somehow they are always right, no logic or standards needed!
Scaramouche, I think it's time you left me alone.
 
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