"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What about dramaqueens?

lifeisgood

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What is your take on woman who generally dramatise situations.
You know the type who make problems appear bigger than what they are.
They talk to their mum or best friend and blow things out of proportion rather quickly and regularly. Until now, I have not come across many in my life,- perhaps been lucky that way
or instinctively avoided them.
Anyways I would like to hear what some of your opinions are?
Someone suggested about my own situation from a recent post;'not to fuel their fire'-which is almost impossible sometimes as everything with her currently gets dramatised...
Ignoring her perceived drama actually makes her more furious,
to play along seems to settle her quicker.
Opinions please?
Cheers Gentlemen.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No.Danny

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Don't get involved
 

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Dear life is Good,
You have more Nom de Nets than Reilly Ace of Spies!
 

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They are usually a bit better in bed, keep them happy sexually and high on oxytocin and they are OK. Once the honeymoon starts to wear off, IME about three months, they will start stirring up crap. Eject to next, and be happy for a good three months.
 

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Also, never argue with a woman especially this type. She will always win.

Why?

Unlike when a man generally argues his case, when a woman like this argues hers, she doesn't use any set of standards to make sure that what she says is actually the truth.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lifeisgood

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Ha, I agree with you logicallefty!
Somehow they are always right, no logic or standards needed!
Scaramouche, I think it's time you left me alone.
 
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