"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what about a LTR FORUM

Sato21m

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HERE the main topic is how to get a girl but what about a forum of how to keep her. Ltr forum were dj's can talk abut their ltrs and thats the main topic of the forum i don't know but i haven't see a ltr thread in a big while well thats my request
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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squirrels

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Two things:

1) Having an "LTR Forum" might encourage AFCs to continue trying to "make things work" in hopeless or damaging situations. Could do more harm than good.

2) I don't really see how the techniques and attitudes used to KEEP a woman should be any different than those used to GET a woman.

I'm not a big fan of the misconception that once a guy and girl are "steady" (or even MARRIED for that matter), the dynamic of the relationship needs to change. Personally, I think it's why lots of couples that are happy when dating end up getting divorced once they get married.
 
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