"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What a wild night!

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Just to say guys that I had alot of fun this weekend, I usually am on here complaining about how **** sucks, I got rejected a few times thats fine I had fun.. We first went to a fair where we danced around a bit, my friend had liqour in the car, so we drank that and came outside.Then after that we went to a club, where we drank some more, and we waited outside on the line.

Attempt 1:
Cute girl walking by so I try and grab her hand but she says
"Hey dont you ever touch me" lol i was a little buzzed but w/e.

Attempt2:
On the dance floor I see two girls So I walk up to them (I dont know where all the confidence came from but I approached these two girls started to dance near them, I tapped one on the shoulder and she turned around and backed up a little more but my wing wasnt dancing we where looking for one of our friends he had some problems with some guy in the club. So I just left them there.

We had to leave early bcuz of a fight, my friend got kicked out.

Attempt 3: At a 7 eleven. I see three decent girls and one of them had a shirt that said boston. So I said

-me-"whats up you guys from boston"
her-- "Does it look like we are from fu*kin boston"
-me- "you sound like it"
her-- (keeps walking to the counter to pay and turns around and gives like a genuine smile)
me- I smile back and shake my head.

I mean maybe bcuz i drank so much I made so "many" attempts usually I keep my mouth shut.
It was fun though nonetheless, afterwards we smoked weed it was a fat 20 sack too. HAd fun
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glad to hear your night was fun - and glad to hear you weren't sweating them *****es!
 

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Keep up the good work! :up:


Laterz...
 

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I should have told her to f8uck off. lol. Or i coulda turned around to my friend and said "what a *****". THose girls at the 7 eleven where really *****y but w/e.
 

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Jesus christ man, do you go to war with women to get them into bed usually?

What are you doing to get these nasty responses?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont know

I have no idea man...maybe thats why I have social anxiety I need liqour to apporach, because I get nasty responses most of the time, but maybe bcuz my tone was disrespectful, almost in a come over here hoe tone.

I was treating her like a b*itch or a "thing" or I thought about it as that she wasnt a person just a thing to get sexual gratification from, like no concern for them at all.

I guess they dont like that lol.
 

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Re: i dont know

Originally posted by kk2004

I guess they dont like that lol.
You guessed right.:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

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its to scary to approach them from an equal stance..if you can lower a thing in your eyes it easier to approach them then bcuz there not equal to you anymore.
 

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Notice the way you use the word "easy" and "easiyer" .... THATS your problem... You are looking for the easy way out when you should be practicing how to do things the more challenging way and have a lot more success with your "game";) ...

... Just something to think about:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 
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