"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what a ****ty predicament.

Dustin

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Well I usualy only come here when I have troubles lol, and I need some advice.

One of my good friends is like right into this girl and stuff and she is like kool, but I don't think she really likes him, but I think she likes me cause she's always talking and flirtin hardcore with me even when he's around she like completely takes him out of the picture.

and it gets worse..I like her ... what should I do fellow DJ's?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bad Karma

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Tell her to **** off so that you're friend can go out with her while you sit at home all night wishing you had the balls to say something to her.
 

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Ya, I could easily hook up with her but it's my friends and I don't want to get pissed at me. That's my main concern.
 

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I understand where your coming from...my advice is short and simple. IF this friend of yours is an ******* than by all mean get the chick and careless about him but if hes a good friend. then remember

"bros before hoes"
there's a billion of girls out there but not that much good friends so if you value your friendship...well its up to you.

Your a ladies man don't trouble yourself with somthing like this. :cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kev me723

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Or maybe if your friend is NOT a b*tch, which i would hope not since he's your friend, then he will be mature enough to realize that she doesn't like him and he won't throw a temper tantrum like a girl would...
 
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