"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nikar

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Ok, imagine you're going out to some exhibition with two female friends, and both will bring her boyfriends along, and they ask you out as well, but you're an AFC / DJ-in-training.

So, it's like:

Girl #1 and boyfriend
Girl #2 and boyfriend
You

So, would you go? I'm not sure if I should, because I do feel weird. Very weird. But if I reject them, I might appear as some insecure guy. What now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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say you're busy if you don't want to go.. but if they are your friends it shouldn't matter.
 
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Ask them if they can get a girlfriend to go with you.

You are a DJ so go to exhibition and meet other women...you are fun and interesting..so exppose yourself.

So GO.. You have anything better to do at home...
 
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