"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What a situation!

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Nikar

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Ok, imagine you're going out to some exhibition with two female friends, and both will bring her boyfriends along, and they ask you out as well, but you're an AFC / DJ-in-training.

So, it's like:

Girl #1 and boyfriend
Girl #2 and boyfriend
You

So, would you go? I'm not sure if I should, because I do feel weird. Very weird. But if I reject them, I might appear as some insecure guy. What now?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chinwaggler

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say you're busy if you don't want to go.. but if they are your friends it shouldn't matter.
 
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true romance

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Ask them if they can get a girlfriend to go with you.

You are a DJ so go to exhibition and meet other women...you are fun and interesting..so exppose yourself.

So GO.. You have anything better to do at home...
 
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