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What a situation!

Nikar

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Ok, imagine you're going out to some exhibition with two female friends, and both will bring her boyfriends along, and they ask you out as well, but you're an AFC / DJ-in-training.

So, it's like:

Girl #1 and boyfriend
Girl #2 and boyfriend
You

So, would you go? I'm not sure if I should, because I do feel weird. Very weird. But if I reject them, I might appear as some insecure guy. What now?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

chinwaggler

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say you're busy if you don't want to go.. but if they are your friends it shouldn't matter.
 

true romance

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Ask them if they can get a girlfriend to go with you.

You are a DJ so go to exhibition and meet other women...you are fun and interesting..so exppose yourself.

So GO.. You have anything better to do at home...
 
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