What a great...simple...explanation

[Babnik]

I just talked to a girl I knew and we touched the relationship topic and the end discussion was that attraction is NOT logical.

Logically, a confident, good looking guy who's got GAME is supposed to attract many ladies.

Thing is...sometimes thats not the case.

This is girl is hot and her ex-BF now goes out with a real ugly girl and everyone says "It makes no sense".

So it appears..its not meant to make SENSE..you COULD possibly be an AFC pulling girls or be a DJ not pulling crap!

I just see posts about ONLY LOOKS MATTER and BLA BLA....if thats the case then I wouldn't see ugly girls with handsome guys and I do. Vice versa for it as well.

I say its pointless to THINK about attraction logically.

 

[Cod3r]

This is girl is hot and her ex-BF now goes out with a real ugly girl and everyone says "It makes no sense".

So it appears..its not meant to make SENSE..you COULD possibly be an AFC pulling girls or be a DJ not pulling crap!

Looks are subjective plain and simple and also two people aren't together purely for the fact that they both are physically attracted to each other. Girls stay with men for financial reasons, or for sex, or for emotional comfort, guys stay with girls for safety, fear, happiness, ect...

If the UG makes that girls friend happy, why hate on him ?? He sure dosen't feel he's pulled crap, he is happy so let him alone. It's not all about looks people fvck and get together for other reasons....


-Cod3r

 

[Docs]

My girlfriend is 2500 miles away.

That's not logical at all, but I'm dating her, and she's dating me.

 

[Cod3r]

^ ^ I could make a comment, but i'm going to withhold for the sake of time



-Cod3r

 

[Babnik]

Looks are subjective plain and simple and also two people aren't together purely for the fact that they both are physically attracted to each other. Girls stay with men for financial reasons, or for sex, or for emotional comfort, guys stay with girls for safety, fear, happiness, ect...

If the UG makes that girls friend happy, why hate on him ?? He sure dosen't feel he's pulled crap, he is happy so let him alone. It's not all about looks people fvck and get together for other reasons....


-Cod3r

Except that I always hear girls talk about how CUTE guys are when they set up dates and all...and that just went against the whole illogical sense...like double...

 

[Ripper]

I just see posts about ONLY LOOKS MATTER and BLA BLA....if thats the case then I wouldn't see ugly girls with handsome guys and I do. Vice versa for it as well.

Oh God,let's hope Skip doesn't see this...

 

[Docs]

^ Haha, he edited too ><

Ohh...lifes weird. Basically...if you like something, you'll fight for it, even if it's against a lot of stuff

 

[Sean O]

This is girl is hot and her ex-BF now goes out with a real ugly girl and everyone says "It makes no sense".

It's possible the guy was an AFC with enough bravado to temporarily fool girls into thinking he's a confident guy, and once the hottie figured it out she got turned off and dumped him. Then, the guy found some ugly chick to mask the pain.

 

[afc_2_dj]

thats the case then I wouldn't see ugly girls with handsome guys and I do.

I see this all the time, yet I never see the inverse, ugly guys with hot chicks, IMHO its becuase whilst looks are important to both, looks are _more_ important to women, as the evidence shows that men are far more willing to be flexible in their requirements, whereas women not.

that I always hear girls talk about how CUTE guys are when they set up dates and all...

Thats it, you never hear women saying "lets go to xxxx, theres loads of intelligent guys there", its always "lets go to xxx, loads of cute guys"

I think its pretty self explainatory, so I'll shut up on this topic now!