"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What a good day =D (kind of field report)

Daddy The Pimp

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Today was a great day , so i wanted to share the story with you .

Yesterday i went early to sleep . I woke up feeling energic and happy .

I want to bathroom and had a long shower . I put on my favorite music and started dancing and singing and running like crazy .

I got in the mood :D .

Called my wing and we headed to the center of the city to have a caffee .

He was feeling the same so we were reflecting positive energy and emotions .

We went there , nothing special . Laughed , told each other some jokes :D and here it comes this 3 set . They eye contacted us , smiled .

My friend waved at them , and as they were passing through tables , i opened with Apocalypse :D .It was the first time i used it , they just bursted laughing , and they ended up on our table . Got their digits :D .

Than , we went to play sony play station 3 . As we were going there , there was a girl on the door of one market , she gave me strong eye contact . I dont know WTF is happening . Maybe summer is driving girls wild , most of the girls that walk by, give me strong eye contact .

And , back to the market girl . I got in and conversation went like this :

DTP : Hey , do you have a mineral water ?
HB : Yes
DTP : Ok , bring me a coke .

She laughed .

She was same age as me so i asked in which school she was , bllah bllah bllah .
Got her e-mail . " You're interesting girls , strange girl :D . "I would like to continue conversation but my friend is waiting outside. Maybe we will contact one day "

She took a piece of paper and wrote her e-mail . " OK , ADD ME ON MSN "

As we were talking , my wing stopped a girl with dog .

AWW CUTE DOG *petting*

Talked to her about dog and than changed the topic . I went to buy some water . All i know was that he number closed her .

Than , we thought that each of us should try to open moving target .

We both failed on this . We got ignored . But we were laughing and cracking .
It was funny .

I came home , and my mother had cooked some pizza . Ohhh , what a delicious pizza .

After eating it , i searched some openers on internet and some other sh1t about pickup . I also watched some in-field videos that inspired me .

I called my wing again and we went out . We went to a bar . On the outside , the bar was full of guys , watching a football game . But inside it was full of girls :D .

Im not a big fan of football , so got in. When i got in , i saw a six-set of girls , friends of mine . I got some social proof , than one of the girls of six set introduced me some other girls . I had fun , i laughed . All girls e-mail closed me .

Than i headed home , walking tall like a crazy mofo , laughing , singing with my wing .

Now im home , waiting for a crazy delicious sandwich to come so i can eat it in a second and sleep to be prepared and energic for promising tomorrow :D .

Im gonna sleep now like im dead , because now i have 6 total spinning plates and 1 girlfriend :D .

The point of this thread is , try to live every day like this :D .

Peace
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prodigy746

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Looks like you had a intersting/fun day. Congrats

I wish i had some friends who were not *****s when it comes to approaching. I want a wingman.
 
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