"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What a DJ really needs

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I may have mentioned this before, but this semester, in every class, there are approximately 1.2 decent girls per every 14.5 fugly girl. That's including the girls with boyfriends, (who I likely won't be able to woo, due to my lack of skill and out of respect for the boyfriend. You know, the whole 'do unto others as you would have them do to you' drill. Gotta have good karma. :) )

What does that mean for me? Well I could go mack some random girls with moderate/no success or I could instead do something that has a 100% pay off for me. I could improve myself.

Something many people on this board forgets is that a DJ is not all about girls; rather it is about self improvement and reaching a level of confidence and comfort where you are naturally good with girls. So, without further ado, here are some things that a high school DJ should work on, regardless of whether times are slow.

1. Get A Job
Even AFCs need money. Use for whatever the hell you want. I want a car :cool: )

2. Work Out
Does a DJ need a decent body to pull the ladies and feel confident? No, but it sure helps.

3. Work on your grades
You only go through high school once (okay, you can repeat but do you really want to do that?) and if you make the best of it, you'll get into the university/college you want. If you don't, you'll end up a drug-using hobo who dies at 34 (or so they say). I've been slacking recently, but this year is my second last so I really need to get on the ball.

Yeah, I can't think of anything else, so please add whatever's missing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mission

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Yeah, very true.

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hey I was a super senior, got more p*ssy than i did my previous 3 years of high school, am graduating and I did smoke a lot of pot and acid. And i'm going to study music.

All that matters is that you have a dream and you go for it. and give whatever you want, your all. If you dont have drive, and a dream and true initiative the superficial sh*t(your toned abs, latte, 2006 escalade and National Merit Scholarship)dont add to sh*t.
 

DJ4Real

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A job is good to have for yourself...but necessarily a requirement to be a DJ...There are so many broke as hell guys with ladies.

Working out helps. Instead of trying to be just visually pleasing, work on your attitude. How you handle situations, etc.

Keeping your grades up is important for you. But you'd be surprised how many DJ's that are out there that have bad grades.

Of course, It's always better to be an educated DJ, rather than a highschool failure. :box:
 

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Workin out is a must, when the muscles build and u thin out and get nice n ripped the confidence come along as well, although confidence comes within it also helps when u know u look more ripped than a spiderman action figure
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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