"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Third Eye

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All right dudes here is my situation and you'll probly all laugh. Its not one of my prouder moments but it happens. So here it is.

Back track to January. I ended my high school relationship of 2 years on a some what mutual agreement. Things had gone sour and we needed a break from each other "we" agreed. It was my first breakup involving someone i really did care about. But i came to find that she started seeing one of my friends i met here in college two years back.And we were good friends at that. Needless to say this started the most pathetic AFC moments the world has seen. I got jealous and wouldnt let it go. I fought and fought to prevent it from hapening. E-mails, Phone calls and i even went to the fools house. I made a desperate fool of myself. This cycle continued until about 4/20, until i basically looked at the big picture and realized how pathetic i had become.

This has left an impact on me and i want to learn all i can from it. Do you guys think i should jump into bootcamp, read the bible again. Anything to get this AFC **** out of me?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the12thplanet

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WOW the same exact thing happened to me about six months ago and I, like you, made a total AFC fool of myself. but its what inspired me to read the whole dj bible and try to really learn what this dj stuff is all about.

tho id say read the bible if you havent before, probably the best way to move on would be to do bootcamp or just start cold approaches.
 

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you need to change your mind set! i recommend reading the bible again and doing a boot camp. you should not be letting the actions of a woman affect you emotionaly. i think as soon as you start to nail other girls thoes thoughts of yours will disapear!
 

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hey kid! Nice to see ya!

I hate to keep saying this, but if you have not read my thread: The Truth: The End, give it a read and see if it answers some of your problems for ya.

One of the things I cover in that thread is wisdom. Wisdom is the facts behind the facts. The truth behind the knowledge. The secret recipe of life that life hides from you in the outside world. This site is that wisdom. I have got to run, but quickly I will tell that the DJ Bible is great and explain techniques and tactics and how you should approach and so on. Read those, and understand them. Then, go about( and this is why you should read my thread The Truth: The End) getting your other two keys of life together. So everything becomes natural, and flows together and does not make you come off as fake, or as a punk. I will be back later, but read my thread, post a reply, and I will go further kid. Alright.

Eminem- Hey, what daddy tell you, stiffen up that upper lip!
 
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