"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what 2 do when u know she is not feeling me

BadBoyCoolMan

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i know that this girl i am friends with is not feeling me as anything more than a friend. she has a bf. i want 2 stay fri3nds with her but not to the point where i have absolutely no hope for anything else in da future. how do i handle this??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joekerr31

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BadBoyCoolMan said:
i know that this girl i am friends with is not feeling me as anything more than a friend. she has a bf. i want 2 stay fri3nds with her but not to the point where i have absolutely no hope for anything else in da future. how do i handle this??
'in da future'

well what youz gashta do mi man is smack dat shizznit up, noze what i b sachazing? word, much respect.
 

Metro3pilot

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Move on ...you're time will be better spent on a new plate or two ...

stay friends if you want ... you never know what will happen down the road but don't count on it ...

:woo:
 

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joekerr31 said:
'in da future'

well what youz gashta do mi man is smack dat shizznit up, noze what i b sachazing? word, much respect.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
ya feelz me??
 

ThunderMaverick

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"in da future"

Gross. Fu<king gross.

Keep your distance from her. Be casual. I'd say respect their relationship, but many people would disagree. If she wants you she'll come to you. I wouldn't suggest pursuing her. Why be her friend? The only reason you want to be her friend is to bang her.

Gawd, what a waste of time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BadBoyCoolMan said:
i know that this girl i am friends with is not feeling me as anything more than a friend. she has a bf. i want 2 stay fri3nds with her but not to the point where i have absolutely no hope for anything else in da future. how do i handle this??

Hey Badboy ,

Tell her this

"I dont mind being friends with you, but I have to tell you; a guy like me , every girl wants to sleep with, so if your bf doesnt mind, i'll be friends with you, but it's on my watch and i dont want your bf interfering with our sex life in da future or I walk away, you feel me???"
 
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