"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what 2 do when u know she is not feeling me

BadBoyCoolMan

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i know that this girl i am friends with is not feeling me as anything more than a friend. she has a bf. i want 2 stay fri3nds with her but not to the point where i have absolutely no hope for anything else in da future. how do i handle this??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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joekerr31

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BadBoyCoolMan said:
i know that this girl i am friends with is not feeling me as anything more than a friend. she has a bf. i want 2 stay fri3nds with her but not to the point where i have absolutely no hope for anything else in da future. how do i handle this??
'in da future'

well what youz gashta do mi man is smack dat shizznit up, noze what i b sachazing? word, much respect.
 

Metro3pilot

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Move on ...you're time will be better spent on a new plate or two ...

stay friends if you want ... you never know what will happen down the road but don't count on it ...

:woo:
 

Interceptor

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joekerr31 said:
'in da future'

well what youz gashta do mi man is smack dat shizznit up, noze what i b sachazing? word, much respect.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
ya feelz me??
 

ThunderMaverick

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"in da future"

Gross. Fu<king gross.

Keep your distance from her. Be casual. I'd say respect their relationship, but many people would disagree. If she wants you she'll come to you. I wouldn't suggest pursuing her. Why be her friend? The only reason you want to be her friend is to bang her.

Gawd, what a waste of time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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guru1000

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BadBoyCoolMan said:
i know that this girl i am friends with is not feeling me as anything more than a friend. she has a bf. i want 2 stay fri3nds with her but not to the point where i have absolutely no hope for anything else in da future. how do i handle this??

Hey Badboy ,

Tell her this

"I dont mind being friends with you, but I have to tell you; a guy like me , every girl wants to sleep with, so if your bf doesnt mind, i'll be friends with you, but it's on my watch and i dont want your bf interfering with our sex life in da future or I walk away, you feel me???"
 
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