"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What’s a normal guy do in this situation?

SkrooU

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Go to store with girl while in a fledgling relationship and girlfriend starts telling guy he should buy clothes he doesn’t want to wear and he has too many clothes that are a material she doesn’t like. Then she says he’s being weird because he refuses to since he knows what he does and doesn’t like.

Would only a guy who overreacts think about it for 24 hours and decide to dump her?

If a guy is constantly dumping girls for sh1t like this because he just gets irritated and loses interest is he just not “relationship material”?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Go to store with girl while in a fledgling relationship and girlfriend starts telling guy he should buy clothes he doesn’t want to wear and he has too many clothes that are a material she doesn’t like. Then she says he’s being weird because he refuses to since he knows what he does and doesn’t like.

Would only a guy who overreacts think about it for 24 hours and decide to dump her?

If a guy is constantly dumping girls for sh1t like this because he just gets irritated and loses interest is he just not “relationship material”?
Sounds like she has a 'mama man frame'.

That's a BIG 'no no' for me. Don't need. Don't want.
 
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