"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We've ALL been through this!

trojanman88

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I need help with opening up like I can usually do it well but if I dont then I really lose out. Plz help :nervous:

Like I'm one of those guys that people love to hate. And I get major social value when I talk but I lose even more if I don't. So obviously i need to talk all the time. I like that I have the oppurtunity to be the man but I also have the same opurtunity to be big loser. So I need to open completely up. Another thing is that I have a face that if I dont smile its kind of threatening. So i recently learned to smile alot. But yeah I need to learn to talk alot which I do but I dont talk to people I dont know enough.lol PLeaze help me get passed this phychological barrier.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know the feeling, and I also know it's all in your head. Opening up will help you but getting some self-esteem is what you need now.
 
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