"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We've ALL been through this!

trojanman88

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I need help with opening up like I can usually do it well but if I dont then I really lose out. Plz help :nervous:

Like I'm one of those guys that people love to hate. And I get major social value when I talk but I lose even more if I don't. So obviously i need to talk all the time. I like that I have the oppurtunity to be the man but I also have the same opurtunity to be big loser. So I need to open completely up. Another thing is that I have a face that if I dont smile its kind of threatening. So i recently learned to smile alot. But yeah I need to learn to talk alot which I do but I dont talk to people I dont know enough.lol PLeaze help me get passed this phychological barrier.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know the feeling, and I also know it's all in your head. Opening up will help you but getting some self-esteem is what you need now.
 
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