"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Western Europe!

travelreveler

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Hey, I'm going to W Europe for half a year next year.

Study abroad for college

What's the game like there? (Holland, Belgium, France and Germany)

I speak French fluently BTW


OH yeah, and while I'm a tall, fit, and fairly good looking azn guy, BUT I grew up in a conservative place so my game defin needs polishing...sux, but it gave me a really good education and scholarships...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ken785

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what up bro...nice for you...i never been there but would love to go there...im going to get my tesol certificate to teach english overseas...should be pretty exciting...European women are definitely more open to different ethnicities than American women..
 

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Your a french speaking azn guy? GO TO FRANCE!

I heard french girls have a thing for azn guys (you east-asian?) and the fact you can speak french fluently will make you even more 'exotic'.
 

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well, hearing is differently from actually being there.


that being said, french girls ARE flirtier by nature, and I have gone out with one for a while.

However, french girls here in North America are a different breed. They usually speak fluent english and are somewhat from higher social-economic classes..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Don't get too burdened about playing the challenging/aloof game. They are outgoing and engaging, you should be too.
 

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Western Europe Report

I went to Western Europe this summer and it's definitely different than the States. If you've ever been to Europe, then you should know that it's like a different world. It takes a while to get used to, but it's such a great cultural experience.

That being said, the game is very DIFFERENT over there, at least it's different than in California where I live. You probably don't want to hear this, but it's a lot harder. Explaining the reason is another topic, but I think the biggest factor is the language barrier. However you said you speak fluent French so I think that is a huge plus for you. In general, girls are more reserved in Europe. They'll give off the vibe of being snooty and stuck up (with all their gucci, chanel, etc). You'll have better chances with an american babe, but that shouldn't stop you from sarging. You'll probably get denied more, but the result is definitely worth it...The girls in Europe are absolutely gorgeous. Seriously, almost every girls is gorgeous, I couldn't believe it! In my experience, I got denied a LOT more, but you're in Europe so you just got to keep sarging on and eventually you'll land a babe.

For anyone that is curious or wants to travel to Europe...I'll briefly share my experience...

I went(partied) to France, The Netherlands, Spain, Italy, and Greece. In my experience, French girls were the hardest to get with. Granted I don't speak a lick of French, so I'm sure that had a lot to do with it. It sucked because I thought the hottest girls were in France. And when I say hot...I mean scorching. The girls are far more prettier than Americans, on the way to the Metro you'll see some of the most beautiful girls you'll ever see...it's ridiculous. France was the only country I didn't score in.

Amsterdam (Netherlands) was a trip. The people are funky over there but English is a main language, so there shouldn't be a language barrier. It's a huge party spot with a ton of bars and clubs. I ended up getting with a few chicks, including a babe from Ireland. It's a huge tourist spot so you'll find a lot of people that are visiting from other parts of Europe. Again the babes are gorgeous(very tall though). Heck even the girls in the Red light district are hot(and very clean, the hot ones can deny anyone they want). You can bang one of those chicks for only 50 euros. I did:up:

Spain is the best. Without a doubt the best place to party and meet girls. The party scene is crazy there, and the people are very warm. I did great here, heck I don't even speak good Spanish and it was not very hard at all to land a babe. The clubs are huge and basically I would just make strong EC and start making out. LOL I miss it already:cry: Oh and the babes are...you guessed it...Amazing. France and Spain, in my book, have the hottest girls. I'll give a slight edge to Spain cause you can hook up a lot easier in Spain, especially in Ibiza if you decide to got there. Easily one of the greatest places in the world.

Italy is beautiful, both the country and the girls. However don't get your hopes up, it's pretty difficult to land a babe. Italy may be the fashion capitol of the world (gucci, versace, armani, etc). So you better look good! Seriously, throw on your most stylish wardrobe or else you'll get ignored. I did ok here, I ended up getting with a lot of Americans unfortunately. There are so many americans visiting here, you'll end up talking to a lot of them. Needless to say, Girls are beautiful here, but very reserved and snooty. Very little of them speak English, but that shouldn't stop you making out a few words and maybe a bit of a conversation. It's tough here, but man o' man, the babes are hot.

Lastly there is Greece. If you go here, go to the islands! Especially Mykonos. They call it Ibiza's cousin because of the party scene, though Ibiza is the outright champion for partying. Don't worry about the language barrier, they speak English here. However there is a downside, there are basically no girls. I'm not sure where they are lol, but chances are if you do find one, they'll have very little interest in Americans. Greeks tend to have some sort of animosity toward Americans, so don't expect any kind of hospitality here...in fact don't expect anything at all! The islands are huge party spots, so expect to find a lot of tourists, both americans and Europeans. Basically, that's all there is to do in Greece...party. Its pretty easy to hook up here, I got with only Americans here. I did have this one grrek girl, but I don't recommend going for them. With every greek girl, there is about 20 greek dudes lol. If those dooshbags see you spitting game with their one greek girl, they'll be after you. They're notorious for that sh*t. So why bother. So i just banged an American instead :) on the beach. Btw, the beach parties are amazing. You should be able to get some.

Ok, so thats my report on Europe. If you're thinking about visiting, you cannot make a better decision. One of the best experiences in my life. Just remember, keep sarging on no matter how many times you may get rejected. You will see the prettiest girls you will ever lay eyes on, so make it happen!
 

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Most of my europa experience has been in the Netherlands. I will provide a brief synopsis of my expereince:

1) Trains, Trams, & train stations: Chatting up women on trains/stations/bus/etc is about the same as in the states. They are almost always friendly & easy going. You don't need some kind of 30 minute canned speach, you simply go talk to the women. The worst thing I can imagine happening is a pleasant conversation that goes no where and teaches one a lot about another culture.

2) Clubs/Pubs: I really didn't try to pick up any women in clubs, so not sure if this is harder, easier, or the same.

3) Swinger Clubs: These can be quite good. I was able to find very 3 attractive women that were receptive during my visits. The scenery is quite interesting at any rate, and I did some average to below average girls just for the experience. It's kind of a crap shoot, so my advice is to plan on going at least 3 times to strike gold.

4) Wallen Girls: I tried to pick up some of these when they had changed into their street clothes. Although I was not successful, I do believe it can be done without great difficulty. Several seemed receptive/attracted, but I wasn't able to close. That was several years ago, and I think I could close now. I recently closed a working girl in South America (one of the hottest in the club), so I would say it's worth a go if you happen across one.

5) Tourists: I was able to close a girl from toyoko who was staying in a hostel quite easily and naturally. Check the hostels and bars near or attached to them, many have courtyards or other gathering places where you can find them.

In short, europa like everywhere else I have been in the world is full of opportunities. Unlike hunting for gold, women are easily spotted. It's simply a matter of finding them in abundance and finding the places that are most practical to get to know a stranger.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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European girls are wh0res.

They have a much different view on sex, in other words it happens a lot more. Nasty sh!t.

Some of them can be really hot though. ;)
 

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lol, maybe some are, but I've yet to meet those.

Here they're all from elite schools from Europe, and just like kids at MIT and Havard here, they're more conservative in that matter.

However, would u care to elaborate?
 
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