"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Were her friends jealous or something?

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Last week i was on holiday in Spain. One night in a club i met this nice looking small Italian girl. I approached her, did the C+F , the takeaway etc and were making out. Really great, she was a good kisser. Untill her friends suddenly said after about ten minutes "we are going to leave". So the girl takes her coat, says thanks, gives a kiss and is off with her friends. Did not had the change to get a stage further or even had the change to ask her email. My question is why this ended at once? Were her friends jealous or something? Did i had bad luck? Probably i also had to pay attention to her friends....who can give me some more advice, tips, giving clear view over such situation?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this is what is known as female c0ckblocking on this site however females refer to it as "lets rescue our friend and go to dennys and laugh about it and go home "

it wasnt you.
it was her friends interferring because they all rode together and they intend to leave together and not to leave a man (their chick buddy ) behind. (so bad things wont happen to her)

happens to me when i go out with ANY of my friends.
i have Never been stuck riding home with some strange guy i met in a bar, all drunk and probally could have raped me or killed me or whatever.

come to think of it, no matter which friends i ever went out with, would interrupt any guy asking my phone number and they would announce a fake one and run me off in another direction like it was funny. and if a guy gave me his number, my friends would usually trade me their number for something like a beer or breakfast at dennys.
 
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So... in summary, your friends are jealous because the guy didnt take the time to win them over and show that he was cool and safe.
 
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Originally posted by locarius
So... in summary, your friends are jealous because the guy didnt take the time to win them over and show that he was cool and safe.
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its not exactly jealousy, its more like they feel unsafe , so they interrupt the guys approach so nothing will happen to you thats bad. they feel as if it is just a rescue.
 
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