"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Were friends right?

PooMan

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Ha i love this line, i use it all the time at college, with gals who i see around!

This is how a conversation went with a gal in my maths class who just came out of the canteen with some crisps

"Hey, were friends right?"

"freinds? you never spoke to me all year last year!"

"yeh i know, but were speaking now which makes us friends"

offer my hand, she shakes it

"ok cool, so as friends, you should really give me some crisps"

"ha, alright then"

she gives me a few

"is that all our friendships means to you?"

"your so cheeky"

she gives me loads more!

haha

another convo with a gal!

me - "so your a lesbian?" (dont ask how we got onto this)

"nearly"

"nearly? so your bi?"

"yeh, but mainly girls"

"oh right, my names mike, you wanna be my friend?"

"sure ok, my names blah"

"hey blah, you know what friends do dont ya?"

"whats that?"

"they let there friends watch during lesbian sex"

"ha you wish, heres my number, ive gotta do some work"

haha!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by PooMan
Ha i love this line, i use it all the time at college, with gals who i see around!

This is how a conversation went with a gal in my maths class who just came out of the canteen with some crisps

"Hey, were friends right?"

"freinds? you never spoke to me all year last year!"

"yeh i know, but were speaking now which makes us friends"

offer my hand, she shakes it

"ok cool, so as friends, you should really give me some crisps"

"ha, alright then"

she gives me a few

"is that all our friendships means to you?"

"your so cheeky"

she gives me loads more!

haha

another convo with a gal!

me - "so your a lesbian?" (dont ask how we got onto this)

"nearly"

"nearly? so your bi?"

"yeh, but mainly girls"

"oh right, my names mike, you wanna be my friend?"

"sure ok, my names blah"

"hey blah, you know what friends do dont ya?"

"whats that?"

"they let there friends watch during lesbian sex"

"ha you wish, heres my number, ive gotta do some work"

haha!

Good sh*t! thats the same sh*t I be pullin in class! kudos to ya my friend!
 

Sloopy

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Originally posted by PooMan

"they let there friends watch during lesbian sex"
Dude - every bisexual girl EVER expects a guy to say this to her.

Be different. Be original.

~Sloopy
 

Freeman

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Re: Re: Were friends right?

Originally posted by Sloopy
Dude - every bisexual girl EVER expects a guy to say this to her.

Be different. Be original.

~Sloopy

MAn its a fregin icebreaker! there's one thing I learned about college is that people are anything but original-dumb sh*t like that works man I tell you this from personal experience-jut be confident with it..
 

Sloopy

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Re: Re: Re: Were friends right?

Originally posted by Freeman
MAn its a fregin icebreaker! there's one thing I learned about college is that people are anything but original-dumb sh*t like that works man I tell you this from personal experience-jut be confident with it..
*shrug*

~sloopy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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