"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Were all human...

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Alright guys after about a two month break here, I got some stuff to share...

After along period of transitioning...I've improved a lot. Girls are not anything special, from a different universe, or any of that ****. They're also *human*. There's no reason to treat them special or put them on a pedestal, because there's nothing that makes them better than you. They need guys just as much as you need girls...

When approaching if you don't make a big deal about it, they won't either. And reverse...girls approach too. For instance today, I was at a rock concert (Dc 101 Chili Cook Off). The girl behind me, HB 8, knocks into me "by accident" looks at me says "ohh..sorry" then starts rubbing her boobs against me...

Were all human and we all want to get laid. Yes girls are horny, we've discussed this on this site before but I want to voice my opinion. All girls want **** BUT different girls show it more than others. Lesbians not included.

One thing I've noticed about kino is when you touch her wherever, DON'T look at where you're touching her or she'll think it's awkward. Seriously. This girl that I was dating and she dumped has been recently attracted to me because of this change I've had...everyone's just been clicking more...life's better guys. She just comes up and touching me now. You want to know how a little tip on seeing if a girl's attracted to you, if she GAZES at you. If when you're looking at eachother in the eyes (you BETTER be looking into here eyes) she just gazes...it's hard to describe...but you'll feel more connected.

Also, don't be afraid of doing anything. You live once, and you don't get any other oppurtunities to do anything. Think of that...

Until next time guys...I'll be checking up...you guys are family...

-Void
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the "gaze" as you put it really is easy to identify, if you know what to look for

when you look at her and she, instead of returning your gaze very briefly, continues to look into your eyes, you will feel a certain connection between you two. if your truly wondering if she's giving you the gaze or not, tough luck, she isn't.

you'll know
 
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Im not sure if they gaze for a longer period if they are shy. I think only more confident girls will keep eye contact. I get the impression that shy girls look at you and quckly look away as to seem un interested.
 
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nah it's when you're talking to her that it's easy to identify , I don't mean JUST eye contact. I mean she'll look at you as if trying to see her reflection in your eyes. You'll feel as if you guys are connecting...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Of course we are all human. It has been established since the stone ages when man had sex with woman. From that point on we realized that we were human. Through careful observation our predeccors have realized that: we all have five fingers, two eyes, some have a penis (or as they caleld it a "twig"), others have a vagina (or as they called it a "black hole")

Through several experiments, it was established that a twig fits into the hole. After multiple attempts of squeezing it into the "black hole," a large balloon succumbed the creature with the "black hole."

Nine months later...

A little white creature exploded from the "black hole." The black hole is truly a wonderful thing. It gives us pleasure, and life thought the creature with the "twig."

Since this new creature was identical to that of his/her parents they were all known as humans.

Hence, "we are all humans..."
 
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Originally posted by Fitch
Of course we are all human. It has been established since the stone ages when man had sex with woman. From that point on we realized that we were human. Through careful observation our predeccors have realized that: we all have five fingers, two eyes, some have a penis (or as they caleld it a "twig"), others have a vagina (or as they called it a "black hole")

Through several experiments, it was established that a twig fits into the hole. After multiple attempts of squeezing it into the "black hole," a large balloon succumbed the creature with the "black hole."

Nine months later...

A little white creature exploded from the "black hole." The black hole is truly a wonderful thing. It gives us pleasure, and life thought the creature with the "twig."

Since this new creature was identical to that of his/her parents they were all known as humans.

Hence, "we are all humans..."
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amusing :confused:
 
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Originally posted by Void
nah it's when you're talking to her that it's easy to identify , I don't mean JUST eye contact. I mean she'll look at you as if trying to see her reflection in your eyes. You'll feel as if you guys are connecting...
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this is basically what i meant

trying this at a distance doesn't work, but if your talking to her and she's all ears and eyes for you, thats how you know

if she's on the other side of the room, anything could distract her. whats close at hand is more important then whats at a distance.
 
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