"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Went wrong somewhere.

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Ok..so it was the first night i was partying after my last day of highschool... i was basically just trying to have a good time.. didnt care much about going after gilrs... but you know... i wasnt going to supplicate to them no matter what.

So i meet this new chick... good eye contact.. then good convo... then she wants some of my beer.. im like "hell no"

she tries to steal my hat and wear it ( wtf is it with girls and this?) i take it back and scold her teasingly. So im actin like this all night... i got 3 gilrs hangin off me... eventually i get the original girl into a rooom and we start making out... shes a little reluctant... asks if im drunk and stuff.. ( they always ask that too). we keep going... then i put my hat on her... and give her a sip of my beer.. was that such a bad move... i thought that was a great move at the time... should i have waited until after she gave me what i wanted?
 

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Yeah you should've waited. Now she had gotten what she originally wanted, and she doesn't have to do anything anymore to get your attention and stuff. In fact, you shouldn't have given her a sip of your beer at all, (or just before she left, you could say: c'mon I'll buy you a beer).
 

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was the alcohol that hard to come by that shed make out with you just to get some?

sounds like a great party:rolleyes:

and if she made out with you wouldnt she continue even after she got a sip of beer?

this story sounds wack
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
was the alcohol that hard to come by that shed make out with you just to get some?

sounds like a great party:rolleyes:

and if she made out with you wouldnt she continue even after she got a sip of beer?

this story sounds wack
I agree. Too many holes in it.
 
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