"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Went wall climbing... DAMN, what a great workout...

NiceGuysFinishLast

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My chest, arms, hands, and ABS feel like ****! That was awesome! The local YMCA in wichita got a 45ft tall x 38ft wide wall. I decided i'd give it a try. Took me 26 mins to climb to the top on the "Intermediate" area of it. (out of: Beginner, Basic, Intermediate, Expert) I had to let go once cuz i was stuck, but damn! I'd suggest this to anyone who wants full body workout. I'm REALLY surprised at how sore my abs are. I have great abs already, but pinning yourself to an incline for half and hour does wonders. This wall is not flat either, it's multifaceted. It's great,

I'm add this to my weekly workout, it's a blast:

Mon: Bi's/Tri's (Curls, Dips, deadlifts)
Wed: Chest, Shoulders (press, flys, shrugs, deadlifts)
Fri: "the wall"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yeah climbing kicks ass. ive got a rock gym about 30 minutes away. i go when i have the money. its so fun. what gets me is my forearms, the underside. try some real rock, adds alittle bit to it when your 400 feet above the ground
 

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walls, rocks, all that stuff kicks ass. I love climbing, not only is it a workout but it's one of the most fun activities there are. This would also be a great first date if your target is decently athletic.
 

NiceGuysFinishLast

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Originally posted by Lt dan
yeah climbing kicks ass. ive got a rock gym about 30 minutes away. i go when i have the money. its so fun. what gets me is my forearms, the underside. try some real rock, adds alittle bit to it when your 400 feet above the ground
Nearest mountains to me are a whole state away. :( But definitely do this if you want bigger forearms, that's what was hit the hardest.
 
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