"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Went to Winghouse tonight

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After a long day at work, I stopped at Winghouse. I used to go there a lot. Haven't been there in many months.

Before I got there, I was wondering what the "league" of really hot girls is like. I've seen some of the boyfriends of some of the girls that work in these type places, and they are not super men.

I got to thinking why are hot girls crazy, then now thinking that they're probably not. I also thought that it would give me a heart attack to even spend 3 minutes around these diva types, but maybe that's just a fake personality they put on.

Girls can't HELP their value being in their pu$$y even if they wanted to.

If I would ever get with any of them, they would want me to want them for something other than sex. I'm not sure what that would be.

If I got mad, it would scare them.

I can't trap myself into thinking that I only have value to them if I'm making lots of money.

Expensive car is a bad idea. They would be more likely to be attracted to a guy that is rich and humble.

Even if I feel confident, I still don't know how to start a conversation let alone maintain or lead one. Ask about them? I honestly don't find it interesting and it comes across as fake. Like I'm just forcing conversation.

I'm sure these girls have boyfriends, but I'm also sure I'm better than them. I've seen some of their boyfriends, they are not super men.

I can become supremely confident when alone, but it wavers in person.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How can you be better than them yet you don't even know how to have a conversation?

Having a conversations is fake....?

Dude you are just all over the place mentally.
 

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So whats your point.


Guys with hot gfs arent supermen


Great discovery
 
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I know you are a quiet guy. Nothing wrong with that. But do you like talking to anybody? Like a guy friend? That's kind of a first step before even attempting to talk to women.
Yea I talk to some guys. Very few. Usually about tools or money or something.

Oh I forgot, I've been talking to a girl for the past few weeks. Also talked to one for a few months earlier this year. Talk about anything and everything. I guess my point was that I couldn't talk to those girls at this specific place. But then again, nobody else at the bar was, either.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How can you be better than them yet you don't even know how to have a conversation?

Having a conversations is fake....?

Dude you are just all over the place mentally.
I can have conversations. Just couldn't start them at this particular time. I guess my point is that I can't start them on demand.
 

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I am, though.

Says who? You?

How would you know? Knowing neither me or their boyfriends?

Lol i just know. Cuz of how lonely an angry you come across. Plus u pop off at the mouth about how great you are (delusion). And u havent posted a pic of your women or your physique or your bank acct etc. Basically you are a liar and you come on here creating a fake life to feel better about yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol i just know. Cuz of how lonely an angry you come across. Plus u pop off at the mouth about how great you are (delusion). And u havent posted a pic of your women or your physique or your bank acct etc. Basically you are a liar and you come on here creating a fake life to feel better about yourself.
None of that is true, and you don't know.

Go back to your war zone, tough guy.
 

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None of that is true, and you don't know.

Go back to your war zone, tough guy.
Its all true.

Facts about you:

- angry
- lonely
- delusional
- superiority complex
- lies about wealth
- ex convict
- has penis pump implant
- hates women

What am i missing?
 
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Its all true.

Facts about you:

- angry
- lonely
- delusional
- superiority complex
- lies about wealth
- ex convict
- has penis pump implant
- hates women

What am i missing?
Better than them = stronger, tougher, smarter, more experienced in life
 

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Better than them = stronger, tougher, smarter, more experienced in life
Lol PSYCHE. Keep telling yourself that...i hear positive self affirmations are a great way to lie to yourself.


Well you didnt deny any of my facts. Hahahahaha. Thats good enuff for me.
 
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Lol PSYCHE. Keep telling yourself that...i hear positive self affirmations are a great way to lie to yourself.


Well you didnt deny any of my facts. Hahahahaha. Thats good enuff for me.
But what I'm saying is true. I've seen some of their boyfriends. Some of them look like computer nerds. I never said I was perfect. Neither are the girls. Neither are their boyfriends. All I said was... I'm better than their boyfriends in the ways that I said.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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But what I'm saying is true. I've seen some of their boyfriends. Some of them look like computer nerds. I never said I was perfect. Neither are the girls. Neither are their boyfriends. All I said was... I'm better than their boyfriends in the ways that I said.
And im saying, your not better then them and especially not in the ways you claim. On top of that women date scumbags and other guys below their level all the time. If you had any clue you would know that as a fact.
 
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And im saying, your not better then them and especially not in the ways you claim. On top of that women date scumbags and other guys below their level all the time. If you had any clue you would know that as a fact.
Yes, I am better than them in the ways I'm saying. Having never met their boyfriends, how would you know?

So I should aspire to be a scumbag? I should forget about the real estate investing thing?
 
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