"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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amnbyrd

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Well for a while Ive been wanting to get a part time job there so yesterday I went in to turn my application in. It was packed and busy. I went to the side of the register and asked if I could drop this off. The girl was kinda *****y and asked what it was-I said an application which was kinda awkward in front of all the women there. lol
She pointed over to the manager and I ended up talking to 2 managers and they were telling me about the job and asking questions. It went pretty well overall. I was surprised by how serious/professional I stayed giving out bull**** answers like when they asked why I wanted to work there I replied that soon Id be having some free time since Id be finished my cdcs for my job on base(im in the military and Im almost done with my cdcs which are a few volumes youre given to study about ur job then u take a big test on it)
ANyways I thought itd be awesome so work there 10-20 hours a week. Btw back home I worked at one for one day(it was only 5.30/hr plus it was a 30 min drive so it wasnt worth it. So I know what the job will be like. I'll be putting censors on bras and on hangars then putting them out on the floor.
I just have to finish my application and turn it back in(i didnt put anything down for references since I wasnt sure if my p/t jobs back in high school would matter.
Anyways whats everyones input on this? Would it be good or bad to work there?

Oh btw on the way out this hb8-9 was walking in and smiled back at me
:rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oakraiderz2

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I dont know if they would hire a guy there for obvious reasons. But ya never know.
 

Bible_Belt

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It seems that there would be some heavy lifting somewhere, right, unloading the truck or something?

Just don't let them think that you are doing it to meet girls. If you talk to them again, ask about the employee discount so you can buy stuff for your girlfriend. What they don't want is a creepy horn-ball guy getting them sexual harassment lawsuits and scaring away customers.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zack77766

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are you serious???!! I would love to be in your shoes!!! I bet you get discounts for clothing (good luck to your gf :) I think the discount and the oppurtonity to be with hbs outweighs the money. good luck playa
 

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Amnbyrd, you told us about a job you applied for.....exactly why?.... It seems that others assume that it's to meet women. I guess I should assume the same.

A man working in a lingerie store? ........Why? Are you gay? It seems like a crossdresser or a homosexual would work in a lingerie store. Makes no sense to me. The fact that you felt awkward about telling the saleslady that you were applying for a job there, in the presence of women should tell you something.

I'd never take any kind of job like that. I'd rather drive a truck, or change tires for a living...you know, something that a heterosexual man would be more likely to do.

What I WOULD do, if I were to take a less-than-masculine job, would be as a shoe salesman. .....Same exposure to women, just as sexual, but you're not playing with lacy panties all day, and you don't risk the same kinds of speculation about your masculinity, and sexual orientation.
 

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They hire GUYS?! WTF's going on?

Just don't gawk too much or you'll look like a pervert.

And don't leave the store with a magazine either! If you want one, order one from online or ebay!
 

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PrinceBeavis said:
Amnbyrd, you told us about a job you applied for.....exactly why?.... It seems that others assume that it's to meet women. I guess I should assume the same.

A man working in a lingerie store? ........Why? Are you gay? It seems like a crossdresser or a homosexual would work in a lingerie store. Makes no sense to me. The fact that you felt awkward about telling the saleslady that you were applying for a job there, in the presence of women should tell you something.

I'd never take any kind of job like that. I'd rather drive a truck, or change tires for a living...you know, something that a heterosexual man would be more likely to do.

What I WOULD do, if I were to take a less-than-masculine job, would be as a shoe salesman. .....Same exposure to women, just as sexual, but you're not playing with lacy panties all day, and you don't risk the same kinds of speculation about your masculinity, and sexual orientation.
Amen. I would have posted that, but I knew the 14 year old boys would scream, "TROLL!" Posts like this show you why girls like much older guys in most of this world. Heheheh, I see boobs. Hehehe.

Clothing, shoes, hair styling, makeup artists, etc. are the domain of gay men in American malls. The only action you will get by working at such a place is some guy's hands down your pants at lunch.

Another thing. You will be viewed as really weird by any normal female if you are not gay and working in such a place. You will make them very uncomfortable. You are already a creepy guy. Working at such a place will only make you that much creepier.
 

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meitenesrigas said:
Amen. I would have posted that, but I knew the 14 year old boys would scream, "TROLL!" Posts like this show you why girls like much older guys in most of this world. Heheheh, I see boobs. Hehehe.

Clothing, shoes, hair styling, makeup artists, etc. are the domain of gay men in American malls. The only action you will get by working at such a place is some guy's hands down your pants at lunch.

Another thing. You will be viewed as really weird by any normal female if you are not gay and working in such a place. You will make them very uncomfortable. You are already a creepy guy. Working at such a place will only make you that much creepier.
Yup, ever hear that old stereotype of a the lone guy in the Victoria's Secret saying that he's shopping for his girlfriend/mom/grandmother? Unless you are actually WITH a girlfriend you shouldn't ever go into that store...whether to work or to pick up chicks there. You already said it yourself that you wouldn't get paid that nice anyways....

...and $5.30/hour? That seems a lil under minimum wage. I call shenanigans.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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