"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Went to the mall for the first time in a long time

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platinumike

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The last time i was the mall, mustve been 1.5 yr ago, with a ljbf. Anyways, i wont solely for scoring some chicks. Mustve got there at the wrong time, cause there werent to many hbs. Anyways, i got a few looks, smiled, and no smile back..lol harsh. I shoulda turned it into, something like oh i see you dont smile when you see good lookin guys. Too bad i dont think of that sh!t before. I made 1 approach at a hat stand and commented really loud on how big the hat was, i was kinda nervous in talkin to her, but i dont think it showed, i thought it was pretty smooth, but she dropped the "i have a bf line". i shoulda said something like oh yeah proove it. Anyways, felt good to get at least one shot out of the whole 2 hrs i was there. Im goin back tommorow, lmao. One question i got though, how do yall deal with thoose lil hop hop sluttly lookin girls, that look like they are just dying for approval?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ Hawtness

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Dude, she saw right through you. If you were nervous, she knew you were nervous (your facial expressions, body gestures, and your EYES).

Btw, those girls gave you eye contact so you SHOULD have talked to them.

Don't rely on just one girl each day, if you can, get to know more.

As for her b/f line, you should have said "How long have you had that problem", or "I bet he couldn't give a massage nearly half as good as I can."

Be creative, and if you can, try to talk to a girl while you are horny. This really allows your sexuality to give you a BIG edge, as you are letting her know that you're sexually attracted to her.
 
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so what happened the next times u went?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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