went to club last night... did good..=)

[becomingme]

So I am just getting back in the swing of things after getting out of a 1 year LTR. We just broke up a few weeks ago, and im sure many of you know its pretty hard to meet girls after your so used to being with the same person. Oh well. I went to the club last night, and I feel i did very well. I think I have pretty good club game. This club is like the kind that is so packed with people you can barley move whatsoever, and the music is so loud you cant hear a thing, so talking is basically out of the question. So i would just jump right in the dance floor and make my way around until i saw a girl i liked, then start dancin up next to her, i used a tip i saw on here like years ago about "butt bumping" lol.. and dam does it work. Like i would start dancing and just rubbing my ass up against them in like a ****y funny way and then if they showed interest, which 9/10 times they did, i would just put my arm around them and pull them over in front of me and start grinding with em.. this worked verrry well for me. I ended up dancing with a few HB 9's , a couple 8's and 7's. I ended up getting 2 phone numbers of 2 girls that I liked the most. One of them after I got their number, I kiss closed them on the cheek and said i gotta go but ill call u some time. Now after my longgggg @ss story lol, my question is this.. my club game is good.. but my atfer club game SUCKS. I have no idea what to say to these girls when I call them up.. let alone how long should I even wait to call them? Yes i know... AFC. But give me some advice guys.. again im justtt getting back in the swing of things and its hard.

 

[vonbock]

One thing I learned on here. Just because a girl gave you her number doesn't mean she wants you to come over and feed her your sausage.
It could be a fake number, "I have bf already", flake out at the last second, and anything else that can happen. Don't worry about what you because even if you are perfect conversationlist, they can still flake on you.

 

[becomingme]

ohh yeah def man i hear yah.. lol been there done that. any more when chicks give me their number, i look them right in the eye and ask them "this is your reall number right?" lol i dont know how good that is , not like its going to stop them from lieing any way, but.. just something i saw from david deangelo some time ago.

 

[chinwaggler]

get as many numbers as you can. all you need to do when you call them is ask them out sometime. if they say no, move on to the next one.

 

[becomingme]

sounds good to me.. i guess thats just all there is to it... thanks guys

 

[DonGorgon]

but my atfer club game SUCKS. I have no idea what to say to these girls when I call them up.. let alone how long should I even wait to call them? Yes i know... AFC. But give me some advice guys.. again im justtt getting back in the swing of things and its hard.

1. you have to be good looking cause they will want you to text them a picture to see if they like your look since most time they wont remember you from the other 40 dudes they met...

2. Call and talk about simple stuff, never get deep... Club hos will pretend they want to get to know you so you wont think they are a ho.. go along with that game... FLIRT FLirt FLIRT... set up a date go and look your best, looks are 90% of the game.. If they like your look they will open up fast... YOU MUST MUST KISS CLOSE ON FIRST DATE!!! most will expect a 2 week "get to know period" and or 2 - 3 dates before the F... MOve quick but not to fast cause she has many dudes inline for the F and if you take over 3 weeks chances drop very low that you fill F

 

[becomingme]

very good points... thanks.

 

[becomingme]

question.. how long should i wait to call or text them? i know you are normally supposed to wait a few days atleast.. but.. since it was at a club and like as mentioned the girls probably danced with a bunch of other dudes. I dont want them to forget about me before i call them.. idk? what do you think?

 

[DonGorgon]

question.. how long should i wait to call or text them? i know you are normally supposed to wait a few days atleast.. but.. since it was at a club and like as mentioned the girls probably danced with a bunch of other dudes. I dont want them to forget about me before i call them.. idk? what do you think?

The next day after 6pm.... its a good idea to text first to feel them out cause many young hotties wont answer their phones when you first reach out... Just send a simple "whats up text" then give time often they take a while to respond.. if she does not, either next her or call a day later... there are no guaranties at all you have to get lucky and click with her.. she has many options so she will not give you much time of day so make the time you get count...

 

[becomingme]

haha.. very ironic... i just txted her at like 6:15.. before i saw this post. i just txted.. yo whats up its jason from last nite.. and she txted back with "Oh heyy whats up? I was wondering if i would ever hear for you or not. Im not up to much, how about u?" , so she def remembered me.. i guess i didnt do all that bad..